Friday, 8 August 2025

In Times of Love and War

 

8th August 2025

671st of October 2023

15th of the month of Av 5785

 

“Falsehood flies, and truth comes limping after it, so that when men come to be undeceived, it is too late; the jest is over, and the tale hath had its effect.”

Jonathan Swift

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends. I was looking for something entirely different when I came across the quote above and it seemed so appropriate for our current situation that I put it as a headline to today’s missive.

 

The lies abound but sadly the government, or rather Cabinet members, keep many lies alive by their thoughtless statements. Actually, not thoughtless, dangerous. Calls to reoccupy Gaza are not only misguided they’re dangerous and the majority of Israelis are against it. Such a move would cost more soldiers’ lives, many of them reservists who have already sacrificed deeply, leaving young families behind for months. Israel’s army is stretched thin, partly because nearly two-thirds of the eligible population, including most Haredim and Arabs, do not serve.

 

Reentering Gaza would mean governing over two million people raised to hate us, a reality that would only strengthen claims that Israel is a colonial occupier. Even neighboring Arab countries refuse to take on the responsibility of ruling Gaza. The rational solution is not reoccupation, but placing the Palestinian Authority in charge, under close supervision from Egypt and a Western country. Crucially, the hostages are believed to be held in Gaza City. Any large-scale incursion would all but guarantee their deaths. We must not sacrifice them to make a political point or score a hollow military victory. Last night the Security Cabinet decided to deepen the fight but not to occupy Gaza.

 

This debate has already claimed the position of former IDF Chief of Staff Herzi Halevi, who, though new in his role, took responsibility for October 7 and planned to step down after the war. He was replaced by Gen. Eyal Zamir, who initially was perceived by the government to support intensified attacks on Hamas, but now strongly opposes reentering or controlling Gaza. His stance has faced a Knesset vote. Let us hope he holds firm; for the sake of our soldiers, our sanity, and our future.

 

This week we saw the horrifying, recently released videos of hostages Evyatar David and Rom Braslavski; skeletal, desperate, Evyatar forced to dig his own grave with his last ounce of strength, Rom, unable to stand, and we can only imagine that the other 18 living hostages are in a similar near death state. I doubt if there was even one among us who succeeded in holding back tears at the sight of their plight.  The anguish of their mothers, and fathers, is unimaginable, hearts torn out and ripped apart. Anyone who has a heart must feel it too. MK Simcha Rothman, who represents Smotrich’s party, refused to watch the videos. He spoke calling them “Hamas propaganda” intended to demoralise Israeli society. “It’s a grave mistake to watch or broadcast these videos,” he said. “I won’t volunteer to let Hamas’s psychological missile enter my eyes and heart.” No words.

 

As Eilon Levy said, “In the video you see who is starving in Gaza, the hand that passed a can of food to Evyatar was fat, well fed. Levy also stood before vast supplies of staple foods on the Gaza side of the border, foods that have not been distributed by the UN. Israel, incidentally, allocated $1 BILLION in aid to Gaza!

 

One cannot defeat Hamas, not Israel, not the West, and certainly not with conventional thinking. The fundamental mistake is in assuming Hamas behaves like a rational actor. They are not swayed by money, they have enough; they do not seek international affection or diplomatic legitimacy; they are unmoved by American threats or Western incentives; Hamas is a movement of religious zealots, guided solely by the teachings of their religious leaders and their interpretation of the Qur’an. That is their only compass — and nothing else matters. When Yahya Sinwar was imprisoned in Israel, no interrogation technique could break him. He remained silent until the Mossad approached Sheikh Ahmed Yassin, his spiritual authority. Only when Yassin gave the instruction did Sinwar begin to speak. That account, which I believe fully, was told to Zvi by a former Mossad operative whose name must remain confidential.

 

All of this leads to one unavoidable conclusion: we should withdraw from Gaza, even temporarily, even under the framework of a “hudna”, to bring home the hostages, or what remains of them. To fail to do so risks fracturing Israeli society into pieces and placing diaspora Jews in greater peril. Don’t take my word for it — take the word of a group of esteemed former chiefs of Israel’s security services, police, and the Mossad: https://youtu.be/DsuGv-5bzNM?si=B20Hki4DEO7rISPY

 

The Security Cabinet of the Knesset just voted to go deeper into Gaza and take over large areas. Surely a devastating decision, nationally and internationally

 

So many countries are rushing to recognise a Palestinian state  but few pause to ask whether it meets the basic legal criteria according to the Montevideo Convention of 1933. A state must have defined borders, a permanent population, a functioning government, and the ability to conduct foreign relations. Palestine has none of these. Still, I’ll admit something that might surprise you: under very strict and realistic conditions, recognition might actually help. I don’t want to rule over another people. I don’t want one shared state. And I certainly don’t want to become a minority in the only Jewish homeland we have. Israel was created as a refuge, a Jewish state on ancient lands, a country where all religions can pray freely and safely. If a Palestinian state existed, it would be held accountable under international law, for its leadership, its finances, and for providing a future for its people. Refugee status would end. Dependency would end. And maybe, just maybe, some of this endless cycle would end too. The world is pouring more than $30 billion annually into maintaining the current situation. Is that really helping anyone?

 

Last Thursday, my heart broke. A group of 180 Israeli soldiers walked through the gates of Auschwitz-Birkenau, not in protest, but in mourning. As part of the “Witnesses in Uniform” programme of the IDF, they came to honour six million slaughtered Jews and reclaim their heritage. But at the site of Jewish annihilation, Polish police told them to lower their flags, the symbol of survival, nationhood, and return.

 

If, like me, you wonder what you can do to make things better in your communities and towns but don’t know how, Jay Ruderman has made it easier through his own vast experience. The book is called Find Your Fight https://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-Fight-Causes-Matter/dp/1637560478 and Jay encourages us to act with advice on how to do it.

 

However, it’s not all bad! There are many places in this confused and gullible world that are waking up from their nightmare.

 

One of the most prestigious of Oxford University colleges, St Anne’s, has for the first time ever launched a scholarship specifically for Jewish and Israeli undergraduate students. Four scholarships will be open to Jewish undergraduates or Israeli undergraduates of any or no faith, to be enrolled at St Anne’s College.

 

A proud moment for Israeli medicine! The Reducer, a groundbreaking heart implant developed at Ihilov Medical Center in Tel Aviv, has just been approved for use in Israel. Placed via simple catheterization, this tiny device improves blood flow and eases severe chest pain. Over 75% of patients report major improvements in quality of life. Innovation made in Israel. Now saving lives

 

Gal Raviv (no relation) scored an incredible 32 points in an Israeli win in the Women’s Under 20 Basketball Championships, winning over the reigning champions France! Israel beat France, the current champions, 81-74, securing a place in the quarterfinals and confirming its spot in Division A for next year’s tournament. Brava to all the team!!

 

Israel's Leviathan natural gas field has signed the largest export agreement in the country's history, worth up to $35 billion to supply gas to Egypt. The deal, announced by Israel’s Yitzchak Tshuva, Director of the Delek Group, will ease a major natural gas shortage in Egypt and secure deeper relations between the two countries

 

After a conversation with friends yesterday I felt the need to contact our old friend Canon Andrew White! Andrew’s speech is very slurred but he was so excited as we talked on Chat about our adventures. He said that the Ezekiel's Tomb episode (which I wrote about last week) was a highlight in his life. Incredibly, after 30 years of severe MS, he still gives sermons from his bed and dreams of coming back to Jerusalem for gefilte fish in the King David Hotel.

 

After another busy week with lots of events and last night, after a community event in the park with an excellent jazz singer, we went to our local amphitheatre where many famous Israelis perform before taking their act to major venues. Last night was the inimitable Yehoram Gaon, still going strong, maybe even stronger after all these years. 6,000 people, the front section filled with pilots, soldiers and injured soldiers from the rehabilitation unit in Sheba Hospital, all of whom were invited personally, and we all sang along with Yehoram Gaon and he regaled us with stories about his father, a teacher of Hebrew and Hebrew Grammar at the teacher’s training college in Jerusalem.

 

His first song rang true with the entire audience. Shalom Lach Eretz Nehederet -  Peace To You, Wonderful Country

 https://youtu.be/__oEmwpEmTc?si=P8OVbBp1EZDRHCVb

 

Hanan Ben Ami is coming to perform in our amphitheatre next week. This song, a song he wrote just a year ago, expresses what so many of us feel “even in hellish times this is still the Garden of Eden” The name of the Song is Moledet, Homeland.  https://youtu.be/9wYEWx1291g?si=wM5GcCLphocOO_vm

 

Finally the song written and sung by Moshe Ben Ami that expresses our prayers for peace – for EVERYONE. Od Yavo Shalom Aleinu – Peace will come to us. The words need no complicated translation, they repeat time and again, “Peace will come to us, peace will come to us and to everyone. Peace for us and for the whole world.” https://youtu.be/L4Uzxn0lV6g?si=uy0fTOhPmD4UKlbh

 

You see, I tried to shorten what I wrote so that Stanley wouldn’t complain, but so many things happened and you’ll have to manage without everything I deleted! Stanley, even without my description of the veranda and its view!

 

Perhaps I should have put the song “Lo Nafsik l’Shir” – We won’t stop singing – as one of the songs because this country will not stop singing. We sing when we are happy, we sing when we are sad and even at funerals where many of the top Israeli singers go to the funerals of soldiers and former hostages at the family’s request, willingly giving of themselves

 

Tonight is the eve of Tu b’Av, the 15th day of the Hebrew month of Av, the Jewish day of love, just 7 days after Tisha b’Av, the 9th day of Av, which is a day of fasting and deep mourning. (for those who wish to know more about this festival please see below)

 

Shabbat is a time for singing. We sing ancient songs, not just the blessings over wine and bread. Some are just hummed, called niggunim, they are the most soulful, bringing with them memories of the “shtetl” the Jewish enclaves in Eastern Europe. We sing, we just sing.

 

So I wish you Shabbat Shalom and want you to know that we miss you. We miss your visits. So many go to countries where we are hated but fail to come here, to the one place on earth where you are welcomed with open arms.

 

With much love

Sheila

 

Celebrating Tu B’Av: A Night of Love, Light, and New Beginnings

As the full moon of Av rises, so too does the spirit of one of Judaism’s most beautiful, lesser-known holidays — Tu B’Av (the 15th of Av), our own Jewish festival of love.

Originally rooted in moments of unity and renewal for the ancient Israelites, Tu B’Av has evolved into a modern celebration of romance and joy. In biblical times, it marked reconciliation, hope, and even the beginning of new love stories. Young women of Jerusalem would dance in white dresses in the vineyards of Shiloh, symbolizing equality, possibility, and new beginnings and the young single men would follow hoping to find a bride.

Today, Tu B’Av is celebrated across Israel and Jewish communities worldwide as a time to cherish love,  romantic and communal. Flowers are gifted, music fills the streets, and couples often choose this auspicious day for engagements and weddings.Let’s take this opportunity to open our hearts, send a sweet message, or simply reflect on the beauty of love in all its forms.

Wishing you a Tu B’Av filled with warmth, connection, and new light. 🌕

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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