Friday, 13 March 2026

Tirana, El Al and Sirens

 

 

13th March, 2026

24th of Adar, 5786

 

Shabbat Shalom to you, to every one of you! I’m back in every sense of the word!!!

 

 “If I can turn one extremist fanatic into a moderate peacemaker, then I am satisfied that I have achieved my life goal.” Professor Mohammed Dajani Duoad.

 

Last night, as it is every night, brought the now familiar Israeli wake-up calls, a disturbingly loud “tch tch tch tch” sound over and over on one’s cellphone, a sound to ensure that one is awake to hear the siren. A sound that never becomes familiar. That’s the hatra’a, the alert that flashes onto our phones warning that missiles have left the Iranian launchers and are on their way. Only then the siren sounds on our phones and throughout the suspected trajectory area. Like everyone else, we get up and walk quickly to the mamad, the safe room, close the heavy metal door, ensure the heavy metal cover is over the window and settle down watching the news on the computer (or playing games), listening out for the booms which tell us that Iron Dome and Or Eitan have done their job. We are deeply thankful to have a mamad in our apartment and do not need to race to the public shelters, we wait for the all-clear, and then return to bed until the next interruption. If this is meant to be a war of attrition, they clearly forgot to factor in the Israeli determination to continue living a normal life, aware of where the safe area (shelter) is. Cafés remain open, restaurants full, shopping malls busy, all of them, of course, equipped with shelters. This morning I sat on the Veranda, the sky a bright blue, the sun warming the crisp air, reading the newspaper, doing my puzzles and eating breakfast while looking at my fruit trees, checking the number of limes in various stages of ripeness, carrying on with the small rituals of an ordinary morning as though nothing at all had happened - which, in its own quiet way, is an act of defiance.

 

Our allies in the Gulf region are in the same situation, undecided whether or when to retaliate. The Emirates, Saudi Arabia, Jordan, have suffered the constant battering of Iranian missiles, but the world, as usual concentrates on us, even suggesting, through careful innuendo, that we are to blame!

 

Those who are in close touch with Israeli media, know that the north of Israel has been bombarded night and day from Hezb-Allah within Lebanon having rebuilt along the ceasefire line despite UN Security Council Resolution 1701, adopted unanimously in 2006, which calls for a “permanent ceasefire, the disarmament of all armed groups (specifically Hezb-Allah), and the establishment of a buffer zone between the Litani River and the Blue Line, free of any personnel/weapons other than Lebanese state forces and UNIFIL”. Yesterday several houses were destroyed in a Bedouin village in the north of Israel by a missile from Iran, 58 people were injured. The missile was one of a barrage from Iran coordinated with missiles launched from Hezb-Allah

 

Only 43% of residents in the north of Israel have returned to their homes since the 12 day war, many homes were destroyed and the fear of constant barrages from Lebanon is a further deterrent. They are beyond angry that money that should have gone to rebuild their homes, towns, villages in this week’s budget, has gone to those who do not serve in the IDF and don’t even recognise the State of Israel. If we are not very careful we will lose the north of Israel, and, with the constant increase of Bedouin wives imported from Gaza, the south too.

 

Is Mayor Mamdani a proud American or defender of the Caliphate? “Today's military strikes by the United States and Israel mark a catastrophic escalation in an illegal act of war aggression.” His position is terrifying, and I cannot believe that Jews voted for him! I’m sorry, I know that it is not my business but the man is dangerous and his wife more so. His wife “liked” a claim that October 7th was a fabrication!!!

 

Alternatively in the UK, The British Home Secretary, Shabana Mahmood, has approved a request by MP Sarah Sackman and the Metropolitan Police to ban the Al Quds Day Rally  "I expect to see the full force of the law applied to anyone spreading hatred and division instead of exercising their right to peaceful protest." 

 

Where were we over the last couple of weeks? Zvi and I decided to go to Albania so that Zvi could have expert dental treatment in an amazing modern clinic! Until we flew there, I didn’t even know where Albanie was or that it’s on the Aegean Sea. We took a wonderful walking tour through the centre of Tirana, and learned what a fascinating society it is, with a rich and complex history. After centuries of occupation, under the Ottoman Empire and the cruel communist rule of Hoxha (pronounced Hoja), Albania has emerged as a remarkably tolerant and kindly society. There is no official religion: roughly 45% of the population identify as moderate Muslims, about 25% are Russian Orthodox, 20% Catholic, and the rest follow a mixture of other faiths or none at all. One hardly sees a hijab; miniskirts are far more common, and the Italian influence is everywhere. Italian is a second language and the local food reflects it, excellent pizzas and pasta on every corner. Albania, or what we managed to see, is a country coming out of the poverty of a cruel communist regime.  Tirana shows both sides, fabulous new architecture, crumbling Soviet style housing; wide open squares and narrow passages. Lovely people, warm and tolerant, open to all as only those who suffered themselves can be. It’s become a popular holiday destination for Israelis and I’m told that the mountains and lakes are exquisite.

 

Purim in Habad was fun! Habad is housed in a pseudo-castle and the festivities included a speech by the community leader and, of course, Zvi met an old friend from his Maccabi days, Damian Brickman. The Rabbi insisted that Zvi give a little speech, and there was dancing and singing; it was fun!

 

War broke out a couple of days after our arrival in Tirana and after the week’s dental treatement, we did everything we could to get a flight home. In the end, El Al contacted us to go to their rescue hub, Athens.  We flew from Tirana to Athens, and then the cavalry arrived. El Al truly is the most extraordinary airline in the world. Tell me another airline whose crew will willingly fly into a war zone to bring their people home. They sent a Dreamliner to Athens so they could triple the number of passengers, took us to Ben Gurion Airport, changed crews, and immediately flew back to collect more Israelis. As we boarded, the crew hugged us, actually the truth is that I asked for a hug and they all came and hugged me, I was so emotional that I was going home. When we landed, they wished us a safe return home. We arrived at our door at three in the morning, relieved beyond belief to walk in to the familiar.

 

Nothing has ever felt quite so good as our own bed, our own shower and our own kitchen. I couldn’t be bothered to go out for bread, so I simply baked some. The washing was done next morning, the bags unpacked, and after a brief collapse into sleep our wonderful neighbours appeared. The downstairs neighbour with pashdida, the upstairs neighbour with vegetables and chocolate cake. I had soup waiting in the freezer, and Zvi made me scrambled eggs. A great relief after my only real complaint about Albania? The hotel breakfast served cold fried eggs, a crime no civilisation should tolerate.

 

While in Tirana, something incredible happened. Stranded in Albania, walking down a street in Tirana with someone from our group, making conversation, he asked where I was from. “Motza Illit,” I said “Where are you from? “Petah Tikva.” He responded. “We have a few friends in Petah Tikva.” “Who?” he asked. “Yaffa and Moshe Boosany. They live on Bayliss Road.” He stopped walking. His jaw quite literally dropped. He stared at me for a moment and then said slowly, “That’s my sister.” He was Kinneret Chaya’s Uncle Natan! Of all the streets in Tirana, of all the people in a tour group of strangers, we had somehow ended up walking side by side. We immediately took a selfie and sent it to Yaffa and Kinneret Chaya, followed by video calls much to their amazement. I could hardly stand; my legs went wobbly and I found myself somewhere between tears and joy. I showed him photos from over the years and the video of Kinneret Chaya speaking so beautifully at my 80th birthday party. It was one of those small miracles that seem to follow Israelis wherever in the world we happen to be.

 

On Monday I had a very Israeli experience. I went to Shaare Zedek Hospital for a regular checkup, obviously checking that non-urgent visits were still happening. “Of course”, said the receptionist “We are waiting for you” I left home giving myself plenty of time to find parking, usually a 45 minute search in both the huge outside and the even bigger underground car park. At Rachel’s request, I headed straight for the underground car park expecting to go down the spiralled drive down some 8 floors, hoping to find an empty space. To my utter amazement it was a sea of green lights! I decided to go down to a space next to the lift (elevator) but wait, there was a barrier across from floor 2 to the rest of the car park. The penny dropped, everything from floor 2 down had been turned into hospital wards!  Shaare Zedek is just one of almost all Israeli hospitals that have gone underground, protecting its patients from the bombardment. On Tuesday I met with my lovely friend Gila in the coffee shop on our estate, an absolute joy and two minutes from our homes.

 

Yesterday I received a call from a dear friend in Sydney, Australia. His dismay was obviously for what we are currently undergoing but most of all, he is dismayed at his own country. Jews predominantly arrived in Australia after the Holocaust, survivors, as far as they could from Europe, and they built their lives anew, faithful to their adoptive country, those who are successful in business give back to society in museums, hospitals, many, many charitable causes survive through the philanthropy and pride of Australian Jews. Their love and trust has been betrayed, their government doesn’t protect them and sadly they are not alone in the world because it is happening in a country near you. Just yesterday an attack on Temple Israel in West Bloomfield Township, had been carried out by Ayman Mohamad Ghazali, Lebanese, who entered the United States on a visa issued to foreign-born spouses of U.S. citizens.

 

It's nearly Shabbat, just a few hours to get everything ready. Tonight our lovely friends Merle and Frank Friedman are coming for supper. I’m delighted to say that they will be our neighbours! Zvi is about to go to his parliament, the third since our return. They don’t meet in the Botanical Gardens when Iran decides to disturb their discussions, they meet in our local shopping mall where there is a shelter should the siren go off. I can already tell you what discussions will take place, the budget! The fact that soldiers, miluimnikim families are fight to survive financially yet the budget has given 5 billion shekels to the Haredi parties. I know some of you don’t like my mentioning it, but it is breaking us apart.

 

Back to being positive! The joy of being home is indescribable. We feel safe here, we know that everything has been done to ensure our safety. For many years now all new builds must have either individual mamads or shelters and anyway, this is home! More and more I realise that the only truly safe place for Jews is here in Israel, but more of that next week.

 

Shabbat will start with lighting the Shabbat Candles, with the prayer and a private moment of contemplation and the prayer that the light from the candles will bring light to our confused world; Zvi’s beautiful kiddush, the blessing over the challah (special bread) and then food. Starting with “Orange soup”, a delicious vegetable soup made of orange vegetables and leeks; chicken with roast potatoes, cauliflower and broccoli, followed by pears poached in wine. We have so much to talk about, especially their exciting new apartment!

 

Music, yesterday I went to my “Mind and Movement” group and what started as a tentative attempt at moving to music (in the  middle we danced our way into the shelter!!) we all began to feel the music and move to release all our worries and tensions. Fabulous.

 

First is the new Israeli entry to the Eurovision Song Contest. I still haven’t decided if it’s a winner and I wish they had chosen a different name, but you judge for yourselves. Noam Bettan sings in Hebrew, English, French and Arabic. Michelle. https://youtu.be/xWCnWSoG8nI?si=Cauc3kGNtoG4IMZn

 

Vehi Sheamda is a prayer said on Pesach (Passover, Pascha) here you hear Daniel Weiss and YStuds. https://youtu.be/fY1wgTq9SRM?si=uC7sLozkDw5IFBAs  The meaning? In every generation since the beginning of time they have risen up against us but the Almighty saves us each time

 

The prayer for the IDF, for our soldiers, always brings me to tears and the superb voice of Natanel Hershik together with the Maccabeats is the ultimate. It was recorded when Benny Gantz was Minister of Defence.  https://youtu.be/uL-yEVU18Cc?si=oWzDmEIA-SxaIaHu

 

We are home, I am making Shabbat, we will survive, this and all attempts to wipe us out. We are strong as long as we unite, as long as we believe, as long as we keep our spirits high

With all our love from Jerusalem and our beautiful “View from My Veranda”

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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