Friday, 30 October 2026

Choices, Selections and Elections

 

28th October 2026

19 Cheshvan 5787 (י״ט בְּחֶשְׁוָן תשפ״ז)

 

Good morning, good afternoon or good night, depending where you are in the world, and most importantly, Shabbat Shalom.

 

Of course I’m disappointed by the election results, although we still have no definite conclusion. With so many parties involved, confusion reigns, and we now enter the complicated business of President Herzog deciding whom to ask to form a government and whether that person can put together a viable coalition. In the meantime, Netanyahu will continue to head the interim government.

 

What I find particularly difficult to understand is how almost those living in Sderot in the South, a town that suffered so terribly, not just on the 7th of October, but through twenty years of rockets and repeated threats, could vote for Likud. Not the Likud of their grandparents, but the party it has become today, with all the questions of corruption, failed leadership and responsibility for the catastrophic events of 7th of October and the subsequent war. I struggle to understand how people can look at what we have endured and still put their faith in those who were in charge when the warnings went unheeded.

 

But this is a democracy, and the picture is clearly more complicated than any of us might wish. The coming weeks will be full of manoeuvering, negotiations and, no doubt, surprises. I hope that somehow this extraordinary political conundrum leads us to a happier outcome and to a government that puts the country and its people before anything else, a government worthy of the amazing people of Israel.

 

Perhaps that is the most worrying thing of all: how easily political loyalty can survive even the most painful questions of responsibility. We deserve answers, accountability and leaders who put the country before themselves.

 

When I think of Israel, I think of so much more than its government. This is my home, the country I chose, the place where our families live and most of our grandchildren are growing up. It is also a country of extraordinary kindness, courage, generosity and hope. I see it in the people around me every day, and I cannot believe that the failings of our leaders should make us lose sight of all that is good.

I know that people will disagree, sometimes profoundly, about the choices Israelis make at the ballot box. I don't expect everyone to share my views, and I certainly don't ask anyone to turn a blind eye to what is wrong. I only hope that those who feel disillusioned can leave a little room in their hearts for the Israel they once cared about — for its people, its spirit and all that it might yet become. We are living through difficult times, and perhaps it is precisely now that we need the friendship and understanding of those who love us. I still believe in this country, even when it breaks my heart. And I hope that, whatever our disagreements, we can continue to believe in its future together.

 

Perhaps the biggest surprise of the elections is the huge Arab turnout. On the one hand it utterly disproves the accusations of apartheid, but on the other the Arab parties may well hold the balance in the Knesset meaning that they can veto almost every law put forward. I have long held the view that Mansour Abbas should be included in any government, but I worry about the other parties because he, unlike some of the Jewish parties, believes that Arabs should serve the country, probably not in the IDF, and accept Israel as a Jewish homeland. Abu Ghosh, long regarded as a community very much part of Israeli society, saw an impressive 78% voter turnout. Many residents felt deeply threatened by Ben Gvir’s inflammatory rhetoric which is strongly reflected in their vote: 56% voted for the Joint List, which takes a more oppositional stance towards political cooperation with Israel, while 35% supported Mansour Abbas’s Ra’am, which has chosen a more pragmatic path of working with Israeli governments.

 

I went to my Movement class and I’m sure you can guess what the main subject of our conversations was. Ultimately we released all our tensions of the last few days with fabulous music and dance under the instruction of Gali. What struck me is that several members of our group were observers in the polling stations and all said that the atmosphere between the representatives of all the parties was exceptional. Haredi and secular, left and right, Arab and Jew, everyone behaved with the utmost respect. It made me very proud.

 

The next subject is particularly sensitive and goes back many years. Jerusalem is facing a delicate and increasingly urgent land dispute involving extensive areas of prime real estate, particularly land originally owned by the Greek Orthodox Church. Under 99-year leases signed in the early 1950s, the Jewish National Fund (KKL-JNF) holds rights to the land beneath hundreds of homes in desirable neighbourhoods   Although the leases don’t expire until 2051–52, negotiations stalled in 2025, leaving homeowners in limbo concerning the future of their homes. This week, the High Court pressed KKL-JNF to go back to the negotiating table and try to reach a solution which will protect residents’ rights while resolving a delicate and complex dispute involving church property, private investors and neighborhoods that are an important part of Jerusalem’s fabric. The Armenian Church also owns large areas of central Jerusalem, also on 99-year lease, and a similar legal battle continues

 

Just curious, did your news outlets report on the fact that on the 26th of October, just days ago, Jordan carried out airstrikes against ISIS targets in Syria after a deadly attack on a Greek Orthodox church in Karak, Jordan, in which nine people were killed? Hmm, thought not.

 

I remember many years ago a friend of Ron Carner z"l came to our apartment.  Ron told us that he was an exceptional investigative journalist and had something important to show us. That’s how we met Steve Emerson. The "something important " was a translated video of Yasser Arafat, even before the Intifada, speaking of his true aim, the destruction of Israel, while he was still being courted by the world's leaders. Today Steve runs the Investigative Project on Terrorism and just completed a report 5 part report on Abdul Al Sayed, the Democratic candidate for Michigan and supporter of the Moslem Brotherhood. Americans should have learned their lesson with Mamdani,

Please read his deeply disturbing report on Abdul Al Sayed, the 5th and probably most damning. https://www.investigativeproject.org/9467/el-sayed-in-the-brotherhoods-orbit-part-5.

 

The EU says it will ‘raise concerns’ over Syrian schoolbooks glorifying jihad and anti-Semitism

The statement follows the publication on October 19 of a report by the Institute for Monitoring Peace and Cultural Tolerance in School Education (IMPACT-se), the Israel-based body that reviews schoolbooks against UNESCO standards. Impact-se is on the ball yet again and our extensive research and reports are taken very seriously. As ever I am more than proud to be the Chair of the Impact-se Board.

 

Our lunch with Bryan Isaacs  last weekend was lovely! What made me laugh is that we both left Wales more years than I care to remember, but were both surprised to be told that we still have Welsh accents! It was so delightful as we walked along the boardwalk in Jaffa’s Old Port. The shipping boats moored along the edge, the fishing nets heaped in careful piles and a few fishermen selling their catch of the day. We were so happy that Samuel Bettsak joined us too. Until recently my only memories of Bryan were when I was 14 years old and coming back from 2 months with my French relations. Bryan helped me carry the wonderful doll, resplendent in her national costume, that I won for our float in the Nice, Battle of Flowers! We both recalled that the aeroplane was a Dakota, propellers of course, and to fly from Paris to Cardiff, we would take off in Orly, land in Bournemouth, take off from Bournemouth and land in Bristol, take off from Bristol and finally, after over 3 hours flying, land in Cardiff, Rhoose airport!!! I know that was a bit of a rambling yarn but it’s absolutely true!!

 

Last night Zvi and I went to a concert of folk songs, in Hebrew called “Shira b’Tsibur”. Basically, the audience enjoy singing wonderful Israeli folk songs which are projected onto a screen so we can all join in. Under normal circumstances I really enjoy such evenings but last night something happened so that I couldn’t join Zvi’s wonderful Bass-Baritone and the rest of the audience. A lady with an enormous head sat in front of me and I couldn’t see the screen! She bobbed to the music, rocked side to side thoroughly enjoying the atmosphere! Oh well, at least I enjoyed the brilliant accompaniment of our friend Ronit on the piano.

 

I’m not going to Rachel today but I really have to tell you about a fabulous experience I had on Wednesday evening. It was the celebration of the “Hina” (Henna) and “Hafrashat Challah” which is a fascinating ceremony based around the bread making of the Challah. A part of the dough, actually a tithe (one tenth) is taken off the risen dough and a prayer said, but when it concerns a bride to be, in this case my incredible grandson Yosef’s beautiful bride Tsofia. It included many blessings for her future life with Yosef. Tsofia, was glowing! A wonderful, warm, beautiful girl, this ceremony, held in her family home, surrounded by her loving family, both old and new, simply lit her up. After the Challah ceremony came the henna part. Tsofia danced with a bowl filled with a henna concoction and each guest had a wad of the concoction put on their palms with a little gold disc to hold it in place until the henna had created a brown spot. Every aspect of the evening expressed sheer joy and the music and masses of food continued well into the night. Needless to say, Rachel, Talia, Ayala and Yosef’s other Safta Pnina and Aunties all shed tears of happiness at each stage of the ceremony!

 

Tonight the family is coming, probably just 12 of us but I never know for sure. I learned from my Mummy that one should always have an additional set of cutlery and plate, just in case another person dropped in. No complicated dishes this week, lots of salmon, sea bass with roasted peppers, antipasti, a big green salad, various other salads all starting with roasted pepper soup! For me that’s a simple meal.

 

And so to music! Music saves my soul, saves me from feeling down and gives me hope. You just have to listen to the words carefully.

 

Rak b’Yisrael, which means Only in Israel, is one of my favourites. Just listen and read the subtitles, it really tells you who we are. https://youtu.be/i-7EvfJje88?si=UNOjEO6EAyShaJfD

 

Halleva’i has no direct translation, maybe hopefully. The late lyricist Ehud Manor wrote the words that express our prayers and Boaz Sharabi added the beautiful music which he then sings. Amazing. https://youtu.be/hwEatU285N8?si=SYAgnyCactoYWHrn

 

Hachayim Shelanu Tutim which is a very Israeli expression which translates to Our life is Strawberries meaning our life is wonderful!! A wonderfully funny cynical song by Hanan Ben Ari which suits Yosef and Tsofia, indeed all young couple setting out on their new life together. Life here is ultimately a bowl of strawberries!!!    https://youtu.be/ATOhZp_FZQ0?si=MlBLYX_mDauBBpSZ  

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends. I really hope that although today’s newsletter has many serious aspects you had fun with the enjoyable ones. I suppose that’s the essence of life, wherever you live. If you have a positive view life is really wonderful.

With all my love flying across the miles from our home in Jerusalem to yours.

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, 23 October 2026

Impact, Obama and Good News

 

23rd October 2026

12th Heshvan 5787

 

 

Shabbat Shalom lovely friends

 

 

This may be a strange decision to make but I am going to try and write a positive newsletter to you today, even though it may seem that our world is falling apart.

 

Yesterday evening I opened up my WhatsApp to find no less than 30 messages from Marcus Sheff, the CEO of Impact-se. Since this is a very rare occurrence, tired as I was, I decided to take a look and found articles from the world media which published Impact-se’s reports on the Syrian textbooks. The work has only just begun on creating even more changes in textbooks, introducing tolerance to people who have only been taught hatred, in this region and beyond.

 

On Monday, Marcus and I met with Former Prime Minister Ehud Olmert, to give him a report of our enormous successes. He was amazed! He knows all the countries in which we have changed the textbooks and believes that what we have done is nothing short of miraculous

 

Not a bad start eh? I would be naïve if I thought that the news is only good so I have to mention Barak Obama, who finally showed us his true colours. I am one who long tried to rationalise the presidency of Barack Obama and criticise those who criticised him. However, this week when he claimed that the Jews had apparently stolen their own Homeland while he was speaking in Belfast on October the 13th. His words succeeded in continuing the misrepresentation of the Jewish people's return to the land of Israel into a story of persecuted European Jews who sought refuge and then took Palestinian land and provoked the violent response on ourselves.

 

If you are over 70 but you don’t have to be Welsh to remember the Aberfan disaster when an entire slag heap (residue from coal mining), illegally built over a stream, slid down the hillside and killed an entire school of children. It happened 60 years ago and Wales still mourns.

 

The elections near, the slanging match continues, and the current government refuses to condemn the actions of the Jewish lunatic fringe who use God’s name in vain. Settlers, a word with disturbing connotations, but think about it, like everything in life it has many meanings. The ordinary folk who live in Maaleh Adumim, Ariel, Efrat (incidentally, Gush Etzion was always within the boundaries of Israel) or the Jerusalem neighborhoods of French Hill, Ramot or Gilo who CNN and BBC, Guardian and NYT give the misnomer of "settlements " indeed derogatory connotations

 

Oh boy, I said that today my musings would be positive and here I am doing the opposite. Back to the beautiful side of life which is being overshadowed but not erased by our elections and the US mid-terms or by-elections.

 

So after our highly successful visit to Ehud Olmert, we went for dinner to Nattie and Yolli Zonszein in order to meet up with the lovely Perla Jinich. Perla was a classmate of Zvi in the Yiddische School in Mexico and of course Yolli is Mexican too. It was delightful (Nattie is a great cook) and conversation was, as always, lively.

 

Our amazing, wonderful friend Kim aka Dr Kimball Taylor, arrived on Wednesday. It is always such a joy when he comes to stay, taking a few days before he goes to the Jewish Agency meetings. This time he decided to join me, despite coming off about 26 hours of flights from Western Canada, and meet my granddaughter, Talia, to buy her all sorts of things for her student apartment to make it livable. Talia is incredible and we tried to get through her list of needs while she darted from place to place. We succeeded and Kim even helped her carry everything to her fourth floor walk up flat!!!!

 

Thursday was one of those truly special days — joyful, moving and full of unexpected moments. Kim and I met Keith and Deidre Beville from Australia at Shalva. They always make a point of including Israel in their travels, and it was lovely to see them again.Another small group was just beginning a tour at 11.30, led by our own Yuval and Lewis. There was a couple from Baltimore and a gentleman from London, all of whom had made Aliyah, so we decided to join forces. After a short introduction, we headed up to Dr Dan’s Room, where Yuval and I shared the explanations. From there, we visited the basketball court and swimming pool. Yoav Engel came into the lift and came straight to hug me! His son, Ofir, had been kidnapped to Gaza by Hamas on that fateful day, 7 October 2023, a date etched into all our souls. Thank heaven, Ofir has been brought home to his loving family and is slowly recovering. When we reached the synagogue, we had the rare honour of meeting Kalman Samuels, the founder of Shalva, who came to talk to us. And there was another lovely surprise: Barbie and I discovered that we shared mutual friends, the Kaufthal family. After the tour, we all sat down to lunch in Shalva’s fabulous restaurant, where Barbie and I chatted and laughed our way through the meal. It was a truly wonderful day.

 

Back to reality. Michigan Democratic candidate Abdul El-Sayad came out of the anti-Israel closet. As I tell everyone here in our elections and even more so in the US Mid-terms, get out and vote.

 

I am ashamed and angry that Jewish thugs brutally attacked Heidi Levine, photographer for the Washington Post. There can be no justification for such violence, and if we care about the values Israel stands for, our government must condemn it and demand that those responsible face justice.

 

I keep thinking back to the riots in France in 1968 and 1969 which happened simultaneously with the student riots in the USA. Anger about the cost of living, housing and the future is real, and people have the right to protest. But when demonstrations turn into organised violence, intimidation and the looting of shops such as Louis Vuitton, I find myself wondering whether something much deeper is at work. We cannot assume that every rioter has the same motive but since of late the extreme left and the immigrants (predominantly from Muslim countries) join forces to disrupt the current rule. What worries me is how quickly threats and slogans can become a justification for violence, and how often people seem more eager to explain it away than to say plainly that it is unacceptable. The response is the rise of the extreme right.

 

Back to heartwarming events! Tonight we have dinner that will include Australians, a Panamanian, a Canadian, a former Romanian, a former Welshwoman (me) and of course Zvi who was born a Palestinian!! When we got home from Shalva, I had the house to myself. Zvi went to a rehearsal and Kim went to visit friends in the Old City. After a quiet cup of coffee I set about making the salads for tonight. I never decide beforehand, I just find what’s in the fridge and get cooking. Actually I began with the pumpkin soup, remembering to put a nice chunk of ginger into the pot! That should open everyone’s sinuses! I went on to make Zvi’s courgette salad, cucumber salad, zucchini and mushroom salad and a beetroot salad. Today just the guacamole to start and when I finish writing I’ll take the salmon out of the freezer. I think we will have fruit salad for dessert, with Ice-cream of course.

 

Tomorrow we will have lunch with Bryan Isaacs, a dear friend from Cardiff. Bryan and friends have done a fantastic job of buying ambulances for Magen David Adom, quite apart from being a lovely man.

 

Deciding what to write is not always easy. I don’t want you to think that life here is tough. We have tough moments but we live very well, Israelis enjoy life. We enjoy our parks, wildlife, treks and of course that so very typical pastimes of eating and shopping. The cost of living is high but hopefully we will deal with that after the elections!!

 

One very important part of life here is music. Music of every kind, Eastern, Western, Chassidic and Jazz………. So let’s get started.

 

I love this song, the words are so hopeful. Ye sit’s with soldiers but it shows us that they are just ordinary people. Enjoy. https://youtu.be/M8Nz-wBEf7o?si=L9ozzV2FECXc-_vp

 

A song that should be sung at every wedding (especially  my grandson Yosef to Tsofia) It is so beautiful. https://youtu.be/OGugR9Ey6gU?si=b3JK3r4rhKa6q7wr

 

Mi haish, Who is the man, who desires life, loves​​ days,
in order to see good? Keep your tongue from speaking​ evil
and your lips from deceitful​ speech
Turn away from evil and do good.
Seek peace and pursue it.  https://youtu.be/-N-uzKNW7rY?si=lC4xHCCAtfSS9yv8

 

I wish you a beautiful Shabbat filled with family, joy and good thoughts. It felt good to intersperse the usual news with the things that make me happy

Shabbat Shalom from our veranda and the glorious view of Jerusalem

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, 16 October 2026

You and Me can change the world

 

16th October 2026

6th Cheshvan 5787

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends. I hope this missive finds you well.

 

This week it’s Parashat Noach, the story of Noah and the Ark. What a week Noah must have had! Imagine building an enormous ark, rounding up two of every animal and keeping the whole lot fed and watered for forty days and nights. I wonder how many times Noah wished he’d booked a cruise instead!

Eventually, the rain stopped and God gave us the rainbow as a promise never to destroy the earth with another flood. Sadly, the flood may have washed away the old world, but it clearly didn’t wash away human folly. Thousands of years later, we are still struggling with hatred, violence and the simple business of learning to live alongside one another. The rainbow was not just a symbol of hope; it was a reminder of our responsibility to one another. And if Noah could manage an ark full of animals without losing the plot, surely we humans can do rather better at sharing the planet!

 

Our lovely friend Dr Kimball Taylor sent me an article suggesting that we are losing the social media battle because we don’t strategise, we defend rather than initiate. The medieval accusations of the blood libels against Jews have taken different forms, but the underlying danger is all too familiar: Israel, and Jews everywhere, are portrayed as uniquely evil and we know that lies can travel around the world before the truth has even put on its shoes, especially when backed by prejudice and clever dissemination of falsehoods gives them such fertile ground. Social media has made it possible for these claims to spread at extraordinary speed, often stripped of context and nuance. What troubles me most is how easily accusations can become accepted as truth, and how quickly hostility towards Jews can be presented as a moral virtue. The echoes of medieval Europe are deeply disturbing. We have not done well in combatting the lies so far, now it is a case of recognise and STRATEGISE.

 

Just a word about the ignorance of the demonstrators. The black-and-white keffiyeh that they all wear proudly in demonstrations against Israel’s actions against Hamas is actually the Keffiyeh of Fatah (PLO), yet in Gaza in 2007, Hamas slaughtered any and all Fatah members when it seized power.

 

The lines of confrontation in the Middle East have become increasingly confused, with Iran-backed Houthis attacking Saudi Arabia and threatening shipping in the Red Sea. Yet there is an important and unexpected positive reaction to Iran’s aggression; it is pushing countries towards greater cooperation rather than driving them apart. Saudi Arabia and the UAE are standing together against the Houthi threat, while plans for a permanent UAE Embassy in Herzliya have just received approval, on the 13th October. Six years after the Abraham Accords, that is a significant step forward. The dangers are very real, but so is the possibility that shared threats may bring Israel and its Arab neighbours closer and perhaps lay the foundations for a more stable region.

 

Talking of Embassies, yet another has opened and the Ambassador of Colombia presented his credentials to President Herzog and the Embassy has opened in Jerusalem.

 

I have to admit that I am not a big fan of the pre-election period! I want it clean, I want to know the what, how, where and when, presented in a clear and understandable manner, as I always say, a manifesto. I don’t want to hear the accusations of misconduct, mismanagement and corruption (however accurate), I want to know what they will do to bring about change. Currently our education system has gone from 3rd in the world to 30th, even allowing for the war it is bad. I want to know how it is possible that despite our vibrant hi-Tech and military exports, we are still in financial trouble and most of all, I want an answer, a clear and determined solution, not an empty promise, of how to bring two thirds of our population into serving the country in some shape or form. I want a government that will remind us that we are one, wonderful, productive, crazy country that must pull together. I want a Noah, a leader who is capable of building a huge vessel, bringing in the animals, ensuring they don’t eat each other and finding a safe landing place.

 

Of course, there are those who are devoted to the current PM and then there are those of us who yearn for change. Even worse there are those who say that if Netanyahu is returned to office, they will leave the country, alternatively, if he is not, then there are many Israelis, who now live abroad who want to return home. The constant angst of the charges and court appearances, the questions about whether the PM was warned of the impending disaster of October 7th, exacerbated by the current accusations as a result of the libel case brought by former Head of the Secret Services (Shabak) Ronen Bar alleging that the Prime Minister knowingly published false accusations about his (Bar) conduct before the October 7th attack to shift responsibility from himself. Until there is a National Inquiry, a full investigation into how on earth the slaughter of so many Israelis, young and old, took ANYONE by surprise, we cannot heal.

 

Walter Bingham, the world’s oldest working journalist and incredible human being, celebrated his 102nd birthday by sky-diving! Born in Germany, Shoah survivor who found refuge in Britain then made Aliya to Jerusalem, is one of the brightest, most fascinating people I have ever met. Happy Birthday Walter.

 

Through hard earned excellence, Israel and Magen David Adom’s first responders, both doctors and paramedics are now spreading their expertise. Doctors and paramedics from the USA are here learning how to deal with major disasters, and small ones. I’m sad that the Israelis gained their knowledge through events that should never have happened, but glad that their expertise is being spread to help others.

 

Baroness Deech is one of Israel’s greatest proponents in the UK. She sits in the House of Lords and is highly respected by all. Thanks to my childhood friend Monica Black who sent me this truly magnificent, concise speech by the Baroness. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DebopKkAUau/?obrf=MTQxZWx2MGhhdnE0ZQ==

 

Zvi and I are hooked on the series “The Tudors”. It isn’t new but is brilliantly written and the acting is superb. Anyway, apart from that, we are now on Series 2, Episode 2 and the build up to the religious war between Henry the Eighth and the Catholic Church is at its height. The similarities to what is happening now in Israel is stunning! Worth watching the series just to see how this battle progresses. It bears a frightening resemblance to Jezebel (follower of Baal) and Ahab who allowed his Queen to dictate the worship in the Holy Land. Sounds familiar?

 

Zvi has many rehearsals in preparation for the visit to Berlin’s Lewandowsky Music Festival in December. It may seem a long way away but it’s a really large choir and the liturgical pieces are quite complex. Anyway, he had a rehearsal on Monday, then went to the photographic exhibition of our friend Meishi (Moshe) Schreiber at the Jerusalem Theatre where he met up with Australian Jyl Bell and her friend Shosh. They came back to us for an early supper and a wonderful chat.  In the meantime, I spent a real mother daughter day with Rachel, looking for clothes in Tel Aviv for my grandson Yosef and Tsofia’s wedding next month and got back just in time to put together surprise supper!

 

Talking about Australians, on Wednesday, my lovely friend and neighbour Gila, took me to visit her sister Margot and her husband Benny Dudkevitch in Moshav Ramat Raziel, a glorious village in the Jerusalem Corridor.  Both of them were very serious journalists, Benny in radio and Margot a military correspondent for the Jerusalem Post including the period during the 2nd Intifada.  Thanks to Benny’s gardening, raising fascinating and rare plants and the incredible peace and quiet of the village, especially since their retirement, he has produced a place to rest one’s soul. Certainly, during Margot’s time as military correspondent, just sitting and listening to the birds must have provided her with a haven of peace. Loved every second especially Benny’s enthusiasm for each plant. I came home with cuttings and instructions! Gila and Margot came to Israel many years ago and have never regretted it.

 

Before I leave to Rachel’s she just this minute sent me an fascinating video of the release of fish to feed the White Pelicans in the Hula Valley to give them strength for their long winter migration. It really is a fantastic sight and shows yet another aspect of Israel and our care for the environment. I love listening to the child’s excitement, even if we don’t understand her words.  https://www.instagram.com/reels/Deh2EG9AFJ4/

 

 

Our home really is a confluence of nations! Tonight our friend Sammy Bettsak, from Panama and Atlanta, is coming for Shabbat Dinner; Monday and we go to Tel Aviv where I will meet with our Impact-se team  (a wonderful mixture of origins) and continue to meet up with Perla Jinich and daughter (Mexico) at the home of Nattie and Yolli Zonszein (Mexico and Israel) on Wednesday Kim Taylor (Canada) is arriving to stay with us before joining the Jewish Agency meetings; then on Friday night Keith and Deidre Beville are coming for Friday night dinner; Shabbat we will have lunch with Bryan Isaacs (Wales) and take Kim to Tel Aviv for his meetings. I’m not even going into next week!!!

 

So the excitement is growing for Yosef and Tsofia’s wedding next month, it’s amazing to have a “simcha” a happy event, to look forward to. Sheli and Amit went dress shopping together, and today I’ll hear many more stories when I get to Rachel. I haven’t even thought of what to make for supper but I’m not worried, it will come together. Shabbat always comes together no matter how many people turn up.

 

Our next song was written and set to music by David Deor many years ago but is so appropriate to today. Shmor al HaOlam Yeled. Take care of this world child because we didn’t manage. Ask for subtitles. https://youtu.be/2_zgDjMv1UA?si=r5x5Ci_2zr6xOhOa

 

Next, one of my favourites. It opens with Don Quixote and Pancho Sancha riding into the sunset and the song is Arik Einstein’s Ani v’Atah -You and Me. You and Me can change the world https://youtu.be/iOv9wSI8Qe4?si=8VNtAPOEjV8ab4rE  

 

Finally an uplifting song that you can sing along with! Hallelujah as you have never heard it before. Shulem Lemmer in concert in Jerusalem. He is everything I want to see in a Haredi man quite apart from his incredible voice. https://youtu.be/-orFQA3fCyA?si=Dh87vywKItgJo788   

 

I have always been a fan of Don Quixote whose fight was not against windmills but rather against ignorance and stubborn determination against change. David Deor and Arik Einstein really “got it” and as I have been saying for 26 years “The Power of One”, that’s you and me, is the only way to save our confused world.

 

I wish you a beautiful weekend, a beautiful Shabbat and remember You and Me Can Save the World.

With love from Jerusalem and our amazing veranda.

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, 9 October 2026

Ever Onward like a Bar-Tailed Godwit

 

9th October 2026

Two days after 1,096 days

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends, Shabbat Shalom from our home to yours.

 

There were many memorial gatherings for the 7th of October, including the peoples memorial in Tel Aviv’s Park haYarkon and another right here in Motza, but we were honoured to be invited by Dr Mike Evans to an exceptional gathering in Davidson Plaza, beneath the walls of the Temple Mount, with Al-Aqsa above us, surrounded by the love of more than 1,000 Christian leaders from over 170 countries. It was an extraordinary experience. Among those honoured by the Friends of Zion Foundation, led by the indomitable Dr Mike Evans, were Yaniv, who received a bravery award for saving the Flydubai flight from Dr Evans, and one of the FOZ staff members who had been on that plane, as well as former hostages, each one a miracle in their own right.

 

I have no doubt you remember Itamar Shapira and the horrific videos of his skeletal body, digging his own grave 100 feet underground. There he stood before us: handsome, physically healthy, and full of determination. “I will take pain and turn it to purpose.” Words of strength, words of an Israeli. Agam Berger, still unsmiling, played her violin. Bar Kuperstein stood with his grandfather, a Shoah Survivor and his father, Tal, sat in the audience in his wheelchair. If you remember Tal was severely injured in an accident but vowed to stand to greet Bar when he came home. Each of them had a story of almost superhuman resilience. And then there was Sagui Dekel-Chen. During his captivity, Sagui had written songs, scratching them onto the wall of his tunnel. But on this occasion, he chose to sing a different song, one that had helped him survive. He sat at the piano, cleared his throat and began, in a broken voice, to sing the Beatles’ In My Life. My tears fell without stopping. In front of me, I saw Pamela Claman wiping away her tears as did our friend Pastor Mike Atkins, and then I realised that everyone around us was feeling his pain. It was as though, for those few minutes, his cracked voice helped us to understand just a little of what he had endured.

 

Throughout the ceremony, Dr Mike stood beside these brave survivors, offering his support. Sylvan Adams, the Canadian philanthropist and proud Jew, spoke about the work of FOZ and the Jewish fight against hatred. Then Bishop Robert Stearns, founder of Eagles’ Wings and a staunch advocate for Israel, stood to sing Hatikva. In all my years of attending events, I have never heard our anthem sung with such clarity, such strength and such conviction.

 

This song, part of which I sent you on Wednesday, was a poem written by Dr Mike and transformed into a beautiful song. https://youtu.be/Az9n4X5w72o?si=t7uAt-BNk6Pgtulk

 

Yet another year of painful memories, yet another year in which we don’t understand what and how it happened and until there is a national inquiry we never will. Oh, and I forgot to tell you that, as I had predicted, the Muezzin above us put the loudspeakers on full volume several times during the ceremony but every time he tried to drown out the ceremony Dr Mike got everyone to cheer very loudly, and I mean

VERY LOUDLY, and the interference stopped!!!

 

Before writing to you, I always read the newspapers and add to my list of things I want to share. This morning, I read that Saudi Arabia and the UAE have launched inquiries into how a man reportedly known for extremist views became a Flydubai co-pilot despite previous concerns. Serious questions must also be asked of our own Transport Minister, Miri Regev. Warnings about aviation security shortcomings had been raised, yet responsibility was transferred to her ministry without, reportedly, authority needed to carry it out properly. Regev says intelligence checks on foreign crews belong to the Mossad, not her ministry despite receiving funding for that purpose. So, who was responsible for ensuring these safeguards were in place? After October 7, we know only too well the terrible price of ignored warnings. We must establish exactly what went wrong and who must answer for it.

 

There are many places and people who give succour to soldiers and their families who suffer trauma from this ghastly war, not just the 7th of October. One way is surfing! Surfing not only connects to nature and freedom; it requires concentration and an escape from the reality of life. One does not need all one’s limbs to surf, one doesn’t need an adonis body, one just has to want to feel the freedom of the sea, the air and the escape. Surfing for Sanity.

 

Listening to the news on the radio, I heard that South African jurist Navi Pillay has won the 2026 Nobel Peace Prize. Pillay chaired the UN Commission of Inquiry that concluded Israel had committed genocide in Gaza — a charge Israel vehemently rejects. War is horrific, and civilian suffering is real, but genocide is a grave legal accusation, not a word to be bandied around lightly. I am so tired of this relentless misrepresentation, so tired of those who seem to forget, or choose to ignore, what Hamas did on October 7th or the bombardment of Israel from Iran. Do they really believe that history began the day Israel responded?

 

Our wonderful Ira, mother of Sheli, is one of only eleven women, all volunteers, chosen to fly to Westchester County to speak before various groups. I proudly contacted my friend Sari, because knowing the Bedford community as I do, I was sure that Ira would not only be appearing there but would be well cared for. Of course, Sari immediately made enquiries around her friends and the wonderful Temple Sha’areh Tikva community and, wait for it, of course one of Ira’s hostesses is Sari’s best friend! If you live in the vicinity of Bedford, check to see where they are speaking and give Ira a hug from me.

 

Yesterday two girlfriends, Merav and Ora, came to have coffee in our coffee shop in “Bet Halutzei ha Or” which translates as House of the Pioneers of Light, right here next to our building. Of course, I introduced them to Yisrael, Haya and Tzila, of whom I have written many times, then, after a delicious lunch, we did a quick tour of the beautiful building which served, for many years of the Convalescent Home for the Histadrut, the Union which took care of the workers of Israel. I was so happy to see that most of rooms, each more beautiful than the previous, were full with sessions for people with PTSD including men, which is a huge advance since they find it hard to reach out for help. Usually it is the wives of, or women soldiers, rather than the male soldiers or first responders themselves.

 

This week the weather was much kinder, softer. The searing heat of the summer sun is quietly abating and the beginnings of autumn are apparent. Waking early one catches the brilliant sunrise reflecting scarlet on the clouds above the horizon, turning Jerusalem a fabulous golden colour in the distance. I love to sit and watch the crimson turn to a soft pink as the sun suddenly climbs over the horizon, radiating light. The birds begin to sing and the tiny sunbirds remember that they have a sweet drink waiting in our feeders. The gentler heat allows the double hibiscus opposite my chair, to give an incredible peach coloured display and maybe this weather will stay long enough to give my second crop of apples a chance to ripen before winter. Both Ora and Merav decided that we live in “Gan Eden” the Garden of Eden, it is so peaceful. I agree

 

Our Friday routine is underway. Zvi is at his parliament, a group of men of differing political views who are convinced that they are solving all the problems of Israel and the world. I often think that if only governments around the world, especially but not only ours could sit around a table, enjoy each other’s company, allow everyone to state his views, what a different world it would be.

 

I went to see Rachel and the girls, Yosef is staying over Shabbat at his fiancée’s parent’s home but I got to hug the girls and heard a brilliant speech about what education should be and how teachers should consider each child’s potential and troubles. I would choose her for Minister of Education any day. Of course it meant that I drove past my favourite view of the amazing patchwork, mosaic that is Jerusalem.

 

I’m now musing over the last week and trying to think of music that reflects the emotions that deeply affected me.

 

Uzi Hitman didn’t write complex, over emotional songs, he wrote straight from the heart simple tunes that had more power, more truth in them than any other. This one is called I was Born for Peace. I love it. https://youtu.be/192t-KvtK2M?si=0iJQ1-u7F0jTNfP4

 

Arik Einstein wrote a beautiful song all about our fears for our children when they leave our nests to fly in the big wide world. I rather like this very simple family rendition. Oof Gozal, Fly my Chick. https://youtu.be/CwMB1NhPRLE?si=NxDowAmFn9FDSmSN  I want to dedicate this to my incredible, beautiful grandson Yosef who will marry very soon. He doesn’t call me Safta, He calls me “My Safta”

 

I think you may have guessed the final song. It isn’t in Hebrew and it isn’t new, but for me it will always represent the resilience and beauty of Sagui Dekel Chen. In My Life by the Beatles. https://youtu.be/8zV6etKD3Ps?si=iSuyAy-xDPVqobAE

 

I wish you a Shabbat Shalom. Shalom is hello, goodbye, au revoir, bonjour, adieu, but above all it means peace. Peace, peace of mind. As I learned that chilly evening by the Southern Wall of the Temple Mount, we, the Jews, the Israelis, we are not alone. As Dr Mike proclaimed true Christians are with us, beside us, holding us. Helping us to be proud of what we are, stand up straight and never make excuses for your birthright.

 

Sending you all my love from our veranda

Sheila