War and Peace; Israel at the Crossroads

 

12^th June 2026

27^th Sivan 5786

 

Shabbat Shalom! I hope this missive finds you well. Today I don’t want to write about events but rather about what the vast majority of Israelis feel after the Haredi riots against conscription and the extremist settlers who claim Biblical lands as an excuse to be vile bullies.

 

There are moments when I struggle to recognise the Judaism I love. This week, Haredi rioters shouted that it is better to die than serve in the army and defend Israel. Better to die? Ours is a religion that celebrates life. The same Torah they study so diligently teaches the concept of Milchemet Mitzvah—a sacred war. Maimonides (Rambam), one of Judaism's greatest scholars, ruled clearly that "a war fought to assist Israel from an enemy which attacks them constitutes an sacred war." It could hardly be more relevant today.

 

The great sages understood this. Rambam, one of the greatest Jewish scholars who ever lived, was also a renowned physician whose medical knowledge was sought by rulers and ordinary people alike and whose medical writings influenced generations. Centuries before modern medicine began speaking about preventative healthcare, he taught that what we eat, how we exercise and the way we care for our bodies directly affects our health. For Rambam, looking after one's physical well-being was not separate from Judaism; it was part of serving God. Hillel worked as a labourer, Rabbi Yochanan as a sandal maker. They prayed, they studied, they worked and they cared for their communities. When danger threatened, Jewish law recognised the concept of Milchemet Mitzvah—a sacred war to defend the Jewish people. As Rambam himself ruled, "A war fought to assist Israel from an enemy which attacks them constitutes a sacred war."

 

That is why I find the cries of "better to die than serve" so distressing. Nobody is asking young Haredi men to abandon their faith. The question is whether caring for one's fellow Jew ends at the door of the study hall, the Yeshiva. Judaism teaches responsibility, not withdrawal; contribution, not exemption. Faith and duty were never intended to be enemies. They are, and always have been, partners.

 

At its heart, Judaism is not simply about ritual observance but about our responsibility towards one another. When the great sage Hillel (110 BCE to 10 CE) was challenged to explain the entire Torah while standing on one leg, he replied: "What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow. The rest is commentary; now go and learn." Of all the commandments and all the complexities of Jewish law, that was the principle he chose as the foundation.

 

The question is not whether one can be religious and serve, but whether one can enjoy the protection provided by others while refusing to share the burden. Judaism survived because Jews accepted responsibility for one another. Faith and duty were never intended to be enemies.

 

Perhaps that is why the next election matters so much. No matter where you live, election campaigns are messy affairs, full of slogans, accusations and half-truths. Here in Israel we seem to be moving towards a choice between two very different visions of leadership. On one side stands a polished diplomat, fluent in the language of international politics and admired abroad, but whose long years in office have deepened divisions within Israeli society and empowered coalition partners whose vision for the country many Israelis do not share. Through political necessity or personal choice, he has given extraordinary influence to religious parties and figures whose priorities often seem at odds with the broad, inclusive Judaism on which the State of Israel was founded.

 

On the other side stands a soldier who rose from modest beginnings to become Chief of Staff of the IDF, a man known less for polished speeches than for integrity, intellect and service. In the end, Israelis will have to decide what they value most. At a time when the nation is crying out for unity and shared responsibility, I find myself wondering whether impressive credentials matter as much as character, honesty and the ability to bring a fractured people back together again.

 

When people hear of Hezbollah's latest drone attacks, they often imagine military targets. In reality, the victims are frequently the families of northern Israel living amongst some of the country's most beautiful scenery. These are farming communities, kibbutzim and villages that grow much of Israel's fruit and vegetables. Children here have spent years interrupting lessons to run to shelters. It is hard to learn mathematics, history or simply how to be a child when sirens can sound at any moment. The tragedy of the north is that these communities are not threatening anyone. They are growing peaches, apples, avocados and grapes, raising families and building lives. Yet they find themselves on the front line of a war they did not start. The orchards should be filled with the sound of children playing, not warning sirens. That is the reality too often missing from the headlines.

 

After the Iranian missiles this week, missiles that sent us running for the mamad yet again, this hardly feels like the moment for lectures from abroad. There is an interesting historical contrast. In the 1970s, Richard Nixon briefly considered pressuring Golda Meir but quickly concluded that squeezing Israel would not bring peace. Today, media reports suggest a very different approach, with President Trump openly seeking to impose upon Israeli decisions. Whether one supports Netanyahu or not is irrelevant. Allies may advise, friends may disagree, but Israel is a sovereign nation, not a client state. Mr President, the Jewish people were here long before the United States existed and, with good leaders and bad, triumphs and disasters, we have survived. Friendship is precious; independence is priceless.

 

The Russian Revolution, Communism, the history books have a tendency to romanticise even the dire violence of the fate of the Romanoffs, but it has rarely been better explained than in the brilliant television series “A Gentleman in Moscow” https://www.imdb.com/title/tt8230448/ Ewan McGregor excels himself as the aristocrat Count Alexander Rostov, sentenced to indefinite house arrest at the real-life luxury Hotel Metropol in Moscow, located directly across from the Kremlin. I highly recommend it.

 

Changing direction completely, I was delighted to see photographs from the Trappist monastery at Latrun, where the monks of the silent order celebrated Corpus Christi last week. For days they had been collecting flowers and arranging them into beautiful carpets of colour for the procession of the Blessed Sacrament. It struck me that this, too, is Israel. Not only synagogues and Jewish festivals, but churches, mosques, monasteries and communities of every faith able to worship openly and freely. Amid all the noise of politics and conflict, it is worth remembering that freedom of prayer is one of the quiet miracles of modern Israel.   So much attention is focused on conflict, politics and headlines that the quieter realities are overlooked: Trappist monks gathering flowers, Druze families welcoming visitors, Christians celebrating Corpus Christi, Muslims attending Friday prayers, Jews preparing for Shabbat. These scenes rarely make the news, yet they say a great deal about the country.  

 

The day began very early, by default, because we were supposed to go to a special performance at the Khan Theatre, my favourite, housed in a beautifully restored 19th-century Ottoman caravanserai. The repertory troupe that performs there is world class, their plays often touring the country after its first run. However that doesn’t explain why I said “supposed to go” We woke at 6 to find a WhatsApp postponing today’s performance so I really have time to write to you, prepare some food and go to see Rachel and the grandchildren. The only problem with going really early is that Yosef, Talia and Ayala may not be awake yet since the don’t work today. I’m so proud of them, they work hard while studying, not a lazy moment. Anyway, getting there earlier means that the challah will be fresh from the oven. Despite quoting the Rambam’s healthy advice, there is nothing like bread burning hot from the oven and dripping with butter! I did it for my children, to welcome them home from school on a Friday and now my daughter does it for me!!

 

Zvi will go to his parliament when about 12 good men will try to make sense of what is happening in our country, try to make sense so that they can explain it to their grandchildren and to family and friends abroad. I watch Zvi, daily trying to explain to the world, in Spanish, Hebrew and English, arguing when necessary but every word written from the point of view of a man born before the State and raised in a truly Jewish Israeli home; a man who feels the responsibility of elucidation, of explaining that despite the news, this little country is still the safest place for Jews. It has become our raison d’etre.

 

So to preparing food, not just food but special food for special people who are coming to us for Shabbat Lunch. Sharman and Melvin Berwald, Shaiela and Eugene Kandel and hopefully Ora and Avner Rosengarten. A fascinating mixture of very bright people who don’t know each other and I promised to abide by their food preferences! We will start with guacamole, go on to red pepper soup, then to chicken (which part uncertain still) stuffed veggies and a big green salad. Dessert is always a question. Should I present the tipsy peaches or make a chocolate mousse or both? What would you prefer? Sharman and Melvin haven’t been to our abode so Zvi will show them the exquisite former Convalescent Home for the upper levels of the Histadrut Union, the Avenue of the Presidents, under our veranda, where all Presidents have planted a tree in the manner of Theodore Herzl who planted the first one.

 

Music, music, music.

 

YStuds and Shai Abrahamson sing, Hineini Kan, I’m Here. A tribute to Jerusalem, not only a beautiful voice but a tour of the Old City of Jerusalem. https://youtu.be/Lyp_PsJ0NX0?si=Z65IBhRw9HXIF0Qj

 

The late Uzi Hitman wrote simple melodies with almost childlike lyrics, lyrics that explain Israel better than almost any other. Ani Noladeti leShalom, I was born for Peace. https://youtu.be/192t-KvtK2M?si=ShmhimRxW2GRpyXY

 

Sarit Hadad sings Israel, really! I had never heard this song before and now I can’t stop singing it!! Welcome to Israel, Baruch Ha Ba l’Yisrael. Honest, straight forward, fun. https://youtu.be/6pl9sWyHQpY?si=Jakuc0pNy25c2IXY

 

I won’t be writing next week, we are taking a short break with our friends Ami and Zehava Sever, so don’t worry, we are fine, just having fun!

 

Please, lovely people, remember that you are our mouthpiece, you are our heroes, you stand up when others stay silent, you are the front line. Tonight, as we all light candles, remember to bring light into this crazy situation, don’t argue with others, just paint the whole picture.

 

Shabbat Shalom, a peaceful one in the knowledge that we are thinking of you.

With all our love from Jerusalem

Sheila

 

 

The Good, the Bad and the Really Ugly

 

5^th June 2026

19 of Sivan, 5786

 

Shabbat Shalom everyone! Just for a change, let’s begin with the good people, the good news, the very good news, and the utterly thoroughly distressing news.

 

After New York Mayor Mamdani refused to walk in the Celebrate Israel Day Parade, former mayors Eric Adams and Michael Bloomberg headed the celebration and Anila Ali, a Pakistani-born civil rights advocate and founder of the American Muslim & Multifaith Women’s Empowerment Council, together with dozens of Muslim supporters, including an imam and several children, marched alongside Israeli supporters. “We were a little worried after received calls telling us to wear bulletproof vests, but we’re fighting to take back our country, and it’s a fight that every American should join.”

 

MP Kemi Badenoch is the leader of the Conservative Party in the UK and a huge supporter of the British Jewish Community and very outspoken about the spate of racist attacks recently. Her clear statement, as a black woman, if the level of hatred and racist attacks had been against black people the outcome would have been the declaration of a State of Emergency. For me this is not a political statement, she goes well beyond that.  https://www.instagram.com/reels/DZHfKTOidHK/

 

Barrie Davey, one of the two Jewish Chelsea Pensioners still alive, served in the Royal Air Force, Merchant Navy, and Royal Army Veterinary Corps finally celebrated his bar mitzvah on Thursday, at the age of 86. The ceremony took place in the stunning grounds of the Royal Hospital Chelsea, the iconic retirement home for British Army veterans. Barrie’s mother fled Europe and denied her Jewish identity; he only found out that he is Jewish 2 years ago!

 

Chantal and Marc Belzberg started a small organisation, a haven for the families of people harmed both physically and psychologically during the 2^nd Intifada. One Family has grown and grown and cares for tens of thousands. This week they were honoured at the Jerusalem Post Conference in New York City.

 

Professor Eugene Kandel is a close friend and an exceptional man. Here is a precis of an article he wrote this week to honour the Screenwriters Guild of the past and the part they played in his family’s freedom. “I always feel a little emotional when I land in Los Angeles and see the Hollywood sign. Few people realise that, in a very real sense, my family's freedom owes something to Hollywood. As Soviet Jews and refuseniks in the 1970s, we were denied permission to leave for Israel, and after my father's activism on behalf of Soviet Jewry, I was brutally beaten as a warning to our family. What helped secure our release was an extraordinary act of solidarity: members of the Writers Guild threatened to boycott the 1978 Moscow Film Festival unless our family was allowed to leave. The pressure worked, and shortly afterwards we received our exit visas and came home to Israel. Whenever I think of Hollywood, I remember that there was once a time when people there spoke out clearly and courageously for Jews in danger. My children and grandchildren exist because of that moral clarity, and for that I will always be grateful”. https://jewishjournal.com/commentary/opinion/388910/in-debt-to-hollywood/

 

Sadly, that is about where my list of admirable people ends. Media reports this week alleged that President Trump spoke to Israel’s Prime Minister in terms that no leader of a sovereign nation should ever have to hear. Whether one supports Netanyahu or opposes him is beside the point. This is not about politics; it is about respect between allies and between nations. No leader should be spoken to as though he were a naughty child, and no country should be told that its existence depends solely upon the favour of another. Mr. President, the Jewish story in this land is more than 5,000 years old; the United States is approaching its 250th birthday. During those millennia we have endured exile, persecution, expulsions, pogroms and repeated attempts to erase us from history. We have had wise leaders and dreadful ones, somehow, we have survived and even thrived. Allies are precious and friendship matters enormously, but Israel's story did not begin with any American president, and it will not end with one either.

 

So much for the ceasefire President Trump announced. While the EU pledges a further €100 million to help the Lebanese Army curb Hezbollah, the Iranian Revolutionary Guards accuse Israel of occupying Lebanon, and yet another armed drone is launched at northern Israel. This time it struck near the small town of Shlomi, where a father sheltering in his safe room with his daughters described the explosions as “very loud and very close”. For families in the north, ceasefires are not measured by diplomatic announcements but by whether the sirens remain silent.

 

There is no polite way to describe what happened at the home of Deputy Supreme Court President Noam Sohlberg. An extreme Haredi mob protesting the arrest of draft dodgers smashed windows, destroyed property, shattered his car windscreen, and terrorised the family sitting inside their own home. Mrs Sohlberg, the daughter of Holocaust survivors, was left in tears, comparing the scene to memories she thought belonged to another era, to Kristallnacht. The two police officers on guard stood no chance against the crowd, but reinforcements arrived and the mob were stopped from getting back on their bus and arrested. If this is what they call defending Torah values, then they have forgotten the most basic Jewish value of all: respect for fellow human beings and the rule of law.

 

I confess that few things infuriate me more than journalism that appears to abandon its responsibility to the truth. The New York Times has faced criticism before over its reporting on Jewish issues, including its coverage during the Second World War, and many feel it is repeating old mistakes. This week, protesters gathered outside the newspaper's headquarters demanding the dismissal of columnist Nicholas Kristof and the retraction of an article alleging systematic sexual abuse of Palestinians in Israeli prisons. Carrying signs proclaiming "The New York Times Lies" and "When You Lie, Jews Die", they expressed a frustration shared by many who believe that serious allegations should be subjected to the same rigorous scrutiny as any other story. One need not agree with every protester to understand the underlying concern: when reporting abandons balance and accuracy, the consequences can extend far beyond the printed page.

 

My week began at my Moadon, our wonderful club, with chair exercises; if you think it’s a pleasant sit-down and a gentle stretch, think again. The chair does very little while the rest of us work remarkably hard. Afterwards we celebrated Rami's 90th birthday. He is one of our oldest members and somewhat infirm, but he loves being involved and is always the first to help anyone who needs it, always with a smile. The look on his face when we Hannah came out with a big chocolate cake and we all sang Happy Birthday was worth seeing.

 

This week was all about family and friends. On Tuesday, my granddaughter Ayala celebrated finishing her final baccalaureate exam by requesting nothing more complicated than an afternoon with Safta at the hairdresser. We spent hours chatting about absolutely everything and nothing, while our friend Rachael Risby Raz popped in for a visit. The following day, Ayala's big sister Talia claimed me for herself, filling me in on her six months in South America, her new "bestie" Sally in Panama City, and the Chabad houses that welcomed her along the way. We ended up painting ceramics and, in true Talia fashion, she spent four hours carefully painting two turtles onto a bowl before we rewarded ourselves with supper.

 

Last night I finally met some of the women from my old water aerobics group in our coffee shop. Half the village seemed to have had the same idea before a performance in the auditorium, and my friends were highly amused as what felt like half the audience stopped by our table for a hug. That's one of the joys of village life: wherever you go, you meet people you know and care about.

 

Today, four grandchildren aged between eight and fourteen arrive for the weekend while their parents enjoy a well-earned break. Saba Zvi will collect them from various corners of the country before delivering them to the pool to burn off some energy. Then comes Shabbat dinner, games, probably Rummikub, and whatever adventures Saba devises for the weekend. It will be noisy, chaotic, exhausting and absolutely wonderful. Best of all, for a few precious days we won't be thinking about politics, diplomats, wars or worries, just enjoying the company of the next generation.

 

Time for music. Zvi always laughs at me because it takes me more time to choose the music than it does to write the newsletter. Of course he says it in fun but it isn’t far from the truth. Maybe about New York? Maybe about Hollywood’s Jewish past? Maybe about grandchildren, friends…..let’s see.

 

This song expresses a paradoxical message: profound attachment and love for one's homeland alongside a refusal to ignore its flaws.  Ein Li Eretz Aheret written by Ehud Manor– which means I have no other land. For better or for worse except without the option of divorce. A home for the Children of Israel. https://youtu.be/4n7DA3sZk2Y?si=k1iwwPrapP4ipU5J

 

This song began as Nomi Shemer's attempt to create a Hebrew adaptation of the Beatles' Let It Be. The title Lu Yehi is a direct Hebrew equivalent of “Let It Be,” but as the Yom Kippur War erupted, the project evolved into an original work reflecting the mood of the country. It became a national expression of hope, prayer, longing, and resilience during a period of uncertainty and loss. https://youtu.be/xJoZ9R4i-N0?si=FA2blZXDkwC2KksV

 

My last choice needs no explanation but you’ve never heard it quite like this. The 2021 A Star is Born Israel and this duet of A Little Help from My Friends blew the judges away – me too! That’s all we need, each of us and more importantly our beautiful, crazy, essential, noisy, innovative, spiritual and fun country called Israel. We need you; we need your friendship and then we can survive anything. https://youtu.be/hyRwhXAzaGY?si=-xEWc6Ik52bSVqW5

 

As Bugs Bunny ended his cartoons, That’s All Folks! We look forward to an exciting Shabbat, one full of love and children. Yesterday I spoke to some of the women in the coffee shop to see who else had grandchildren staying and ours should have a ball, meeting new friends.

 

I can’t wait to see their faces shining as we light the Shabbat Candles, as Saba Zvi recites the blessing over the wine in his glorious Bass-Baritone, then invites the children to bless the Challah, always an honour since whoever blesses gets the first piece! That’s really what it is all about, passing on traditions to the next generation so that they understand why this beautiful country is of ultimate importance, so much so that it is worth fighting for, be it verbally or militarily.

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends. Shabbat Shalom whether your prayers are in Temple, Synagogue, Shul, Tabernacle, Church or Mosque, I wish you a peaceful, contemplative Shabbat.

 

With love from our veranda which overlooks Jerusalem glistening white on the horizon.

 

Special love to my big sister Doreen who has her birthday on Monday. Still as beautiful, busy, slender and loving as ever she will be 88. Happy birthday Dordi!

 

Sheila

 

 

 

 

Surprises, Shabbat and Song

 

29^th May, 2026

13^th Sivan, 5786

 

Shabbat Shalom, a holy Eid Al-Adha, a Blessed Armenian and Orthodox Pentecost. A peaceful weekend to all whether you celebrate all of the above or not.

 

When I planned today’s letter, missive, I was worried that I wouldn’t manage to be my usual optimistic self, then I sat down at the computer, realised that Zvi had pushed back the protective iron cover to the window and lo and behold, in the meantime the little almond tree had not only grown, but was laden with green, fluffy almonds. The promise of a fine crop; added to that, the little Sunbirds came to visit their sweet water feeder, the male tweeting happily to call his friends to come and drink; my new raised herb garden with a few herbs moved to their new home and I bought basil, dill and sage. I now have a full English folk song in Parsley Sage Rosemary and Thyme! My mood has lifted despite the situation.

 

Another aspect of my life that has lifted my mood is our relationship with the Emirates. When I say “our” I mean Impact-se. Not only have the Princes opened an office for us in Abu Dhabi, but it includes a researcher and have contributed enormously to our successes in changing the attitudes of the moderate Muslim countries by taking hate out of their school books. If only we could take hate out of the minds of most Western countries.

 

Temu and AliExpress sell everything on the cheap, which is fine, indeed I use their services from time to time, including my raised herb garden, but I really didn’t expect Hezb-Allah to buy their drones, intended as toys, and convert them into explosive elements of war to terrorise the Israelis in the North of our country. Don’t think they harm and terrorise just Jews the Muslim, Christian, Druze, Circassian, Bedouin Israelis are just as scared, suffer just as much from sleepless nights disturbed by sirens and worse still, from drones that fly so low and are so small that there are no warning sirens.

 

The United Nations has reached new lows. Not that the Iranian regime has been accepted on their Committee for Women’s Rights, but they now declared Israel as a sexual abuser in wartime, along with Hamas! Can there be anything more ludicrous, can there be anything more damaging?

 

Mayor Mamdani has managed to reach yet another low by refusing to attend New York’s Israel Day Parade. Previous mayors understood that attending, often even leading the parade, was about far more than politics; it was a statement that New York stood proudly with one of its largest and most vibrant communities. This refusal feels sadly symbolic of the atmosphere now creeping across a city once celebrated for embracing every faith, nationality, and background imaginable. What troubles me most is not only his decision, but the fact that none of his views were hidden. He made his hostility towards Israel perfectly clear long before the election, and yet many Jews, still chose to support him. I confess I struggle to understand that. One does not have to agree with every Israeli government policy to recognise when rhetoric crosses into something far more troubling. Perhaps that is the real sadness here: watching a city with such a rich Jewish history become increasingly comfortable with attitudes that would once have been unthinkable.

 

Sometimes it may appear that one has overcome all hurdles and formed an alliance with unexpected countries, even when they agree to take hate out of their schoolbooks, then they apparently turn, take a hairpin bend decision to ally themselves with your sworn enemies.

 

One of the quieter but deeply important aspects of the current regional situation concerns the Kurds, who so often seem to end up the tragic losers in Middle Eastern politics. Israel reportedly favoured greater Kurdish involvement inside Iran, seeing them as a counterbalance to regimes and movements committed to war against Israel, but Erdoğan, terrified of encouraging Kurdish nationalism within Turkey, strongly opposed the idea. With Trump maintaining close ties to Erdoğan, threatened with the closing of American bases in Turkey, the plan he initially approved, was dropped. The result has unsettled Gulf states such as the Emirates and Saudi Arabia, who increasingly wonder whether America would truly stand beside them in a major conflict. Meanwhile Erdoğan appears to be steadily positioning himself as leader of a broader Sunni alliance, with unmistakable dreams of renewed Ottoman influence. In this particular struggle, Turkey may well feel it has emerged the quiet winner, while Israel and the Kurds once again pay the price.

 

There was something almost absurd about watching Gaza flotilla activists loudly proclaim a humanitarian mission, only to admit that the voyage was never really about aid at all, but about provoking Israeli soldiers and creating headlines. Even more remarkable was seeing some of them arrested in Libya before ever reaching Israel, while those so eager to condemn Israeli “cruelty” suddenly became rather quiet. Spain warmly praised the activists as victims, yet seemed far less vocal when Spanish police themselves used force against demonstrators at home. It is precisely this double standard that so many Israelis find so exhausting. At the same time, we must have the honesty to condemn disgusting behaviour within our own society. The recent Ben Gvir incident, with its ugly atmosphere of provocation and hatred, shamed Israel and handed ammunition to those already determined to vilify us. Loving Israel surely means being able to defend her against lies from outside while refusing to excuse behaviour from within that betrays the values we claim to uphold.

 

Talking of upholding values, Judeo-Christian values, and of the extraordinary country we created. I find myself once again troubled by many in the Haredi leadership. Not all the Haredi community by any means, because many live lives of kindness, faith, and quiet dignity, but by the dangerous idea now being encouraged by some leaders that Torah study alone absolves one of responsibility for the defence of the nation. I believe deeply in prayer. I believe it has sustained the Jewish people throughout centuries of exile, persecution, and survival. But our history and our Bible are filled with our heroes and heroines who prayed and fought when necessary. Today our soldiers, our reservists, our exhausted IDF are carrying an almost impossible burden through a desperate shortage of manpower. Surely it is time to understand that one can pray, study Torah, and still serve the nation in countless ways that protect lives without abandoning faith. Judaism was never meant to separate us from our people, but to bind us to their fate.

 

An interesting dilemma for the international legal community but a dilemma that creates a whole different question. Antiquities that are found in the disputed territories which of course are Yehuda and Shomron, or belong to the Palestinian Authority. There are two questions here one the archaeologists are all Israeli and have Jewish content the other question arises that in the past Jewish proof of thousands of years of being in this area have been destroyed

 

OK now that I have thoroughly depressed every one of you lets learn something most don’t know. A young man threw a dart in the world map and got on a plane to the darts chosen destination. What he found there amazed him and his Instagram followers. He came to Tel Aviv/Jaffa. What he found was a community of every faith, every creed and a great deal of fun, food and excitement. https://www.instagram.com/reels/DY41AJUM7L7/

 

If you don’t know Eitan Chitayat you really should watch all of his videos and clips. He is not aggressive in his love of Judaism, Israel and Freedom, he explains and proves. A rare and special man. Here he created a video explaining to Jewish children what is happening in this confusing and confused world that the hatred they may experience right now we have survived many worse situations, survived and thrived. Hate burns itself out. Please listen to his amazing sense and show it to your children and grandchildren. This too will pass. https://youtu.be/NKVpq3OGn9Q?si=lzJ_9qQVntCMZgxm

 

Perhaps the most important aspect of this disturbing world where it feels like the inmates are running the show, is that we, the sane and optimistic people of all faiths should stick together, should support one another because united we stand. Bill Withers wrote this song more than 50 years ago and it has never held more meaning than today. Lean On Me. https://youtu.be/dtC1W-6hwIU?si=AEz8hkI7U0PGDZqJ

 

Our Father who is in heaven, Protector and Redeemer of Israel, bless the State of Israel, the dawn of our deliverance. Shield it beneath the wings of Your love; spread over it Your canopy of peace; send Your light and Your truth to its leaders, officers, and counselors, and direct them with Your good counsel. Strengthen the defenders of our Holy Land; grant them, our God, salvation and crown them with victory. Establish peace in the land, and everlasting joy for its inhabitants. Remember our brethren, the whole house of Israel, in all the lands of their dispersion. Speedily bring them to Zion, Your city, to Jerusalem Your dwelling-place, as it is written in the Torah of Your servant Moses: Avinu Shebashamayim the ultimate prayer for Israel sung by Cantors Azi Schwartz, Netanel Hershtik and Yaakov Lemmer . I guarantee to bring a tear to your eyes. https://youtu.be/vFFcLjbc-1E?si=9dhe6ZX_zRK-2Pmd

 

Idan Amedi is from a huge Jerusalem family, an entire tribe, but he stands out, not only because he is a brilliant singer songwriter but also because when the call came two and a half years ago he responded and was seriously hurt in Gaza. It took him time to return to performing recently, after a period when his PTSD kept him out of the highlight. He stayed out of the highlight refusing to accept the title of hero and chose, instead, to sing at the funerals of each of the slain hostages and many of the slain soldiers; preferring to give solace rather than receive applause. Last night he performed in our local amphitheatre. Here he tells an important story. https://youtu.be/qQepsm0Rc0U?si=7QzX9aLnIEn1aHJt

 

This has been a very special week. On Shabbat Zvi and I went for a glorious walk in the Nature Reserve opposite. The path is very uneven, literally as nature intended it, the rocks and stones worn away by thousands of footsteps, the verges filled with indigenous trees and flowers, olive trees that seeded and created new trees hundreds of years ago and air to fill one’s lungs and renew energy. People passed us with their dogs “Shabbat Shalom” or “Yom Tov lechem” some were surprised that two people of a certain age were capable of walking the difficult path and congratulated us, I’m not sure if I enjoyed their labelling us as Old Timers, but we walked on, holding hands, until we reached our destination. The one weather-worn bench under an ancient pine tree giving us the view across the whole valley. In winter it is a reservoir overflowing into the Beit Zayit Dam but in summer the rich fertile land left behind becomes green and the vineyard extends for miles. I returned to our Moadon, our club for people of a certain age where we do a really tough chair workout for an hour and are then rewarded with breakfast together. I go twice a week and thoroughly enjoy the company and stories of the older members, especially Violetta, an incredible 95 year old lady, born in Bulgaria, who vividly remembers the war, WW2, and always arrives in beautiful clothes, colourful dresses, lipstick and a smile. A feisty lady with incredible warmth. The Moadon is organised by our local Council and is great fun.

 

I met my lovely friend Susan the other day. It was wonderful being with her although our choice of coffee shop was unsuccessful. Next time I will take her to Motzeleh which has the best breakfasts ever, made on the spot with a huge choice.  Other than that , I went to my Movement class and met our lovely group of friends and that’s me this week. Zvi of course went to his two choirs for rehearsals, meetings of the Jerusalem Academy of Music and today is on a tour of Kibbutz Ramat Rachel with his parliament.

 

I am about to leave to see Rachel and family the aroma of her incredible challot reaching me long before I actually arrive. First of all, I must go toward Abu Ghosh and on to Kiriat Anavim to my favourite petrol station to fill petrol and then on the road over Nebe Samuel, Samuel’s Tomb, the highest point in our area with its incredible panoramic view all the way to Tel Aviv, Rishon LeZion and, of course, Jerusalem, it’s ever changing skyline with more and more high rises, as modern Jerusalem grows and thrives.  

 

As we light our Shabbat Candles, an act of faith whatever your faith, I feel that light enters my little circle, my little world. As the warmth of the flames lights my face, so I believe that for every candle lit we can light our entire world with kindness.

 

Be strong, this too will pass. It always does.

Sheila

 

Shevuot and Ben Gvir

 

21^st of May 2026

5^th Sivan, 5786

 

Good morning, Shabbat Shalom and Chag Shevuot Sameach and a Blessed Ascencion Day

 

The difficulties of peace are better than the agony of war.”

— Menachem Begin

 

Shevuot celebrates our receiving of the Torah — not only faith and ritual, but the moral foundations of how we live, how we treat one another, how we behave as human beings. The Torah contains 613 commandments, and while none of us manages to fulfil them perfectly, surely the most important among them are those that demand decency, compassion, justice, and respect for others.

 

That is why the behaviour we witnessed this week from Minister Itamar Ben Gvir and those around him felt so profoundly shaming. Cruelty, provocation, and hatred are not expressions of Jewish strength; they are a betrayal of the very values we celebrate on Shevuot. The violent extremists once romantically described as “Hilltop Youth” are not settlers safeguarding Israel’s future, but lawless individuals whose actions damage innocent people, deepen division, and stain the moral fabric of this country we love so deeply. Criticism of such behaviour is not anti-Israel; on the contrary, it comes from caring enough about Israel to expect better from those who claim to represent it.

 

It is also important to remember that the very framework of the Oslo Accords recognised that both Jews and Palestinians would continue living in Judea and Samaria while final status arrangements were negotiated. The existence of Jewish communities there is therefore not, in itself, the issue. One may support or oppose settlements politically, but there is a profound difference between lawful communities — families building homes, schools, farms, and lives — and violent extremism carried out in their name. Far too often the distinction is deliberately blurred, unfairly tarring entire populations because of the actions of a dangerous minority. Most Israelis, including many settlers themselves, want nothing more radical than safety, stability, and the possibility of living alongside their neighbours without fear.

 

I love Shevuot! The supermarket shelves suddenly become a sea of cheesecakes, cream cheeses, yoghurts and enough dairy products to keep the entire country happily overfed for days. Homes are filled with the smell of baking blintzes and cheesecakes, with every family utterly convinced, quite rightly, of course, that theirs is the best. Meanwhile, on the kibbutzim, harvest festivals are in full swing, children leap about in the hay, tractors are decorated, and otherwise perfectly respectable adults appear in alarming “Farmer Joe” outfits which would not look out of place in an old village fête. Babies born on the Kibbutz or moshav since last Shevuot are celebrated, their names often read out for all to hear.

 

And somehow this lovely festival, marking the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai, also weaves together one of the gentlest and most touching stories in the Bible: Ruth, who chose loyalty and love over comfort and familiarity, following her mother-in-law Naomi with the immortal words, “Where you go, I will go.” It is during the harvest that Ruth meets Boaz in the fields, a story of kindness, dignity, belonging, acceptance and ultimately renewal. So Shevuot becomes a perfect mixture of spirituality, harvest festival, family gathering and national cheesecake competition — which feels very Jewish indeed.

 

In easier times, on a Shavuot weekend like this, we would simply head north; to the breathtaking beauty of the Galilee, to tiny towns, kibbutzim and villages bursting with flowers and greenery. We would stop in Druze villages where extraordinary women prepared wonderful kosher meals for visitors from Israel and abroad, and the greatest concern of the day was whether one had packed a hat and enough water for the walk.

 

Now the reality feels painfully different. Even during what is supposedly called a ceasefire, Hezbollah continues its explosive drones, and little children celebrating Shavuot in their kindergarten are taught not songs and dances alone, but how to run for cover or lie flat on the ground protecting their heads. And yet so often the world hears only one side of the story, while the fear and disruption endured by Israeli families in the north barely merit a mention. It leaves one longing not for anything grand or political, but simply for the ordinary peace of those earlier days.

 

I know that we are living through an extraordinarily unpredictable time, our lives seemingly balanced between the decisions of two powerful men and an extremist theocracy openly committed to our destruction. One moment we are wondering whether we will spend Shabbat sitting in the mamad listening for sirens, and the next whether we might simply go for a peaceful walk in the Jerusalem hills. That uncertainty is exhausting.

 

Perhaps that is why I felt such anger this week when an American President casually remarked that Israel’s Prime Minister would “do as he is told.” Seventy-eight years after Israel fought for and achieved independence, those words jar painfully. Whatever one thinks of Netanyahu, and Israelis certainly think many different things, this country is not a protectorate, nor are Israelis a people who wait for others to determine our fate. We are proud, stubborn, argumentative, independent, resilient people who built a nation against impossible odds. And yes, there is confusion, frustration, and fear at the moment, but beneath all of it remains something unshakable: this is our home, our responsibility, and ultimately our future to decide.

 

On a much lighter note, we had rather mixed feelings watching this year’s Eurovision, seeing the Israeli song “Michelle”, with its extraordinary stage performance, come first with the viewers yet only second with the judges. It somehow summed up the strange atmosphere surrounding Israel these days; ordinary people responding with their hearts while official panels tie themselves into knots trying to appear balanced and terribly sophisticated. In truth, hosting next year’s Eurovision would probably have been rather complicated for us at the moment, but it would still have been lovely to win. Through it all, Noam Bettan conducted himself with warmth, dignity, and intelligence. No anger, no theatrics, just quiet confidence and pride in representing Israel at a time when doing so takes no small amount of courage. Sometimes simple decency speaks far louder than politics. I love that he ended his performance, as the cameras closed in for a close-up, he mouthed “Am Yisrael Chai”

 

Last Friday night we had an impromptu Shabbat Dinner here with our cousins Rachel and Yossi Ribak and Zehava and Ami Sever. As you can imagine, the conversation went from our current political, diplomatic situation and the emotional see-saw of both our leadership and Iran. The interesting Israel question of “Who will you vote for” was also clear in intent and uncertain in fact. It all depends up whether or not our current opposition cares enough to get together and form a majority to oust this Kakistocracy. I pray that it will happen and happen soon. I pray that we will return to a united, caring society without the splintering of the last nearly 20 years. I pray that we will retain our rightful place among the democratic nations. I pray that we will regain respect, both external and self respect. In other words, I pray that we will be everything we prayed for before May 14^th 1948.

 

So, the first song is an obvious choice. Michelle, the incredible performance of Noam Bettan and the dancers at the 2026 Eurovision Song Contest. https://youtu.be/E2aL4xRzNXI?si=lVymECDvT8lJ4uU0

 

Naomi Shemer wrote many of the most beautiful Israeli songs and this one doesn’t disappoint. SHIRAT HA´ASAVIM  Sung by Shuli Rand it is a song to the plants and trees, surely the epitome of Shevuot. https://youtu.be/GDw_2sHhxXQ?si=tzyrvKSLqThgc5Xd

 

Shevet Achim v’Achiot – a Tribe of Brothers and Sisters. What we are and what we will be. It’s our dream, it’s our fact. Here it’s home, Here it’s heart, Here our ancestors are the roots and we are the flowers, it’s our Israel we will never leave. Israeli artistes sing our greatest prayer. https://youtu.be/KLx6qOdA4OE?si=2FxwQl0F86HXMhIR

 

I wish you a peaceful celebration of both Shevuot and Pentecost. I wish you a harvest of love and joy, of understanding and acceptance of the other.

 

Shabbat Shalom to one and all and may God bless you with the ability to find the best in every situation.

With love from our veranda which is filled with the colour and scents from the blossoming trees and the newly emerged flowers and, of course, the view from our veranda, over the Jerusalem Hills, the view of Jerusalem, David’s city which is has no less than 70 names in the Bible including Ir Shalem, Ariel, Yerushalyim, Shalm, Moriah, Zion, yes Zion hence the word Zionist…..

 

Sheila

 

The Eve of Jerusalem Day

 

14^th May 2026

27^th Iyar, 5786

Jerusalem Day

 

Of course, I wish you Shabbat Shalom but most of all I wish Jerusalem to hold celebrations of Jerusalem Day filled with joy, fellowship, good will and safety

 

Today is the eve of Jerusalem Day, celebrating the day Jerusalem became one again; Old City and New, heart and soul. The day in 1967, on the fourth day of the war Motta Gur uttered the words “Har HaBayit b’yadeinu” “The Temple Mount is in our hands” and the sight of Yitzchak Rabin, the Chief of Staff, driving his jeep  through the Lions Gate, sent tears, disbelief, and overwhelming joy not only through Israel, but throughout the Jewish world. Jerusalem Day was never only an Israeli moment; it was emotional for Jews everywhere who suddenly felt history, longing, and return collide in a single sentence. A tiny country, fighting simply to survive against those who wished to destroy it, suddenly reunited with the heart of its history. 6 incredible days when Israel survived a simultaneous attack from all her neighbours near and far.

 

I woke this morning to that unmistakable scent of an early Israeli summer; pine trees warming in the sun, citrus blossom drifting on the air, and the dry sweetness of the hills around Jerusalem. We live beside the old Seven Sisters road, with its seven winding bends climbing towards the city, the very road that first carried me to Jerusalem as a wide-eyed seventeen-year-old on my first visit to Israel, its hairpin bends striking fear in our hearts as the ancient bus struggled its way up and up, the Aliya to Jerusalem, the driver manipulating the heavy wheel around each bend. This week, Gerald Fraser, an old friend from Cardiff and his wife Rhea, came to see us, Surprisingly Gerald forgot that we had been on that bus, in that group, in 1963, together and when I reminded him we spent our time reminiscing on that magical summer when a group of teenagers fell hopelessly in love with this country and quietly decided that, one day, this would be home. More than half a century later, through wars, terror, two Intifadas, sirens, heartbreak and joy, it still is. Jerusalem, whether Jew, Christian, Muslim, agnostic or even atheist, just the name is capable of warming the heart.

 

I may be a dreamer, even an optimist, and I recognise that things have changed, emotions that ran deep in love may have turned to hatred, but still if you go to the Old City markets, to the centre of the city, to Mamilla and of course the that most Yerushalmi of places, Machane Yehuda market, the Shouk, you still see everyone together enjoying life! Most evenings, after the bastot (market stalls) have closed, leaving only the aromas of fresh fruit and vegetables, knaffe, sweet halva and the echoes of the costermongers in the air, the metal blinds come down, revealing wonderful graffiti depictions of famous Israelis – and Einstein, and the chairs and tables come out, the musicians warm up, the beer kegs are in place and young  people of all ages and creeds come to celebrate being alive. The years of fear of explosions in that wonderful place are a memory, hopefully never to return.

 

This morning I walked to my Mind and Movement class and our beautiful leader, teacher, guide, Gali, suggested we each talk about our memories of childhood in Jerusalem, our thoughts of the present and our hopes for the future. Of course I was not born in Jerusalem, one born in the USA, one in Haifa, one in Algeria and myself in Wales, just Tami spoke of her childhood in Rahavia and the little roads that haven’t changed, walking to school and going to the little sweet shop, each of us spoke of our connection to that city, from near and far, and our emotional attachment, be it through prayer or through our parent’s dreams. I walked back together with Galia, who was born in Algeria but came to Israel as a young woman together with her family. As we walked through the village of Motza, in itself with historic ties to Jerusalem and Teordor Herzl (yes I meant to write Teodor because that is how he called himself) we spoke of what Jerusalem gave to us when we were children in far countries. We spoke of our love of that city, that moving to Motza was not leaving Jerusalem because we feel part of Jerusalem, simply a rural suburb.

 

Jerusalem has undoubtedly become more religious over the years, though in truth that applies to all three monotheistic faiths that hold the city so dear. To digress, (what would you do if I wrote without digressions) there are no less than 52 Christian denominations, 8 Muslim denominations and about 600,000 Jewish denominations!!! There is, however, an interesting phenomenon among some people who leave Jerusalem for the freer, more energetic rhythm of Tel Aviv life. Quite often, they seem to remember only the frustrations and changes, focusing on the crowded entrance to the city, the towering new buildings, or the tensions of modern Jerusalem, rather than its extraordinary heart and soul.

And yet cities evolve; they always have. Jerusalem is no exception. Alongside its ancient stones and timeless beauty are hi-tech companies, start-ups, cafés, galleries, and the creative pulse of a modern capital. In fact, many of Israel’s beloved coffee chains began there. It seems a pity to see only one side of the city’s character, because no great city in the world remains frozen in time. If we judged every beautiful city only by its traffic, cranes, or changing skyline, we would probably never travel anywhere at all. The city centre is filled with students during the day and many stay to enjoy the cool Jerusalem evenings instead of the sticky humidity of anywhere closer to the sea.

 

There is an old saying that nine-tenths of the world’s beauty was given to Jerusalem, and on certain days it is tangible. One of the loveliest buildings in the newer part of the city, after the YMCA, which can hardly still be called new, is the Supreme Court. Whatever one’s politics, the architecture is breathtaking. Funded, like the Knesset, through the generosity of the Rothschild family, the Court carries with it a remarkable story. Dorothy de Rothschild had one request: that the Supreme Court should stand on higher ground than the Knesset, to symbolize the supremacy of the rule of law and justice over the political legislative branch and that a pathway should connect the two buildings, and that the Court should always remain accessible to all. After her death, that vision became reality.

 

The building itself feels both modern and timeless. Vast arched spaces filled entirely with natural Jerusalem light, Jerusalem stone flowing seamlessly from outside to inside, and courtrooms designed to reflect different parts of the Old City. Even the smallest details carry meaning. Above each section are stones representing those in the Choshen Mishpat, the High Priest’s breastplate of judgement, once used to seek wisdom and guidance for the people of Israel. It is very Jerusalem somehow — history, symbolism, beauty, and modern life all layered quietly together in one extraordinary place.

 

I hope that I have done justice to the city that I love so much. Of course it has changed as the demographics dictate, but despite the 120 members of the Knesset it is still the spiritual heart of Christianity and Judaism and has become, in recent years, equally important to Islam.

 

Since the class this morning was called Movement after our musings, we then danced to several utterly Yerushalmi songs. The Banai family was born in the Shouk, Mahane Yehuda; The renowned Israeli artistic dynasty originated from Persian Jewish roots, settled in Jerusalem's Mahaneh Yehuda neighborhood; Rahamim Banai (then Bana) arrived in the Land of Israel from Shiraz, Persia, in the early 1880s. They have produced generations of celebrated musicians, actors, and entertainers, unquestionably the "first family" of Israeli entertainment.

 

Interestingly enough the late Meir Banai’s most famous song is called Shaar HaRahamim, the Mercy Gate. Although this video, for some reason, shows the Kotel, in fact the Mercy Gate is opposite the Mount of Olives on the other side of the Old City. The Messiah (we never argue if its his return or his rising) will arrive through the Mercy Gate followed by all those buried on the Mount. The Jewish cemetery is on the hillside, the Christian on the lower slopes and, sorry I get a bit political here, The Mercy Gate (Golden Gate) was sealed in 1541 by the Ottoman Sultan Suleiman the Magnificent, who also initiated the placement of a Muslim cemetery in front of it. While the gate had been closed previously, this 16th-century action was part of rebuilding Jerusalem's walls, with tradition stating it was done to prevent the entry of the Jewish Messiah. 

Here’s the beautiful song  https://youtu.be/zexmsOcywnQ?si=OkvoWBeNcSAiymQq

 

"Shabchi Yerushalayim" is based on Psalm 147 here sung by Avihu Medina. The lyrics praise God for protecting and strengthening Jerusalem. “O Jerusalem​, praise the LORD; praise your God, O Zion. For He has strengthe​ned the bars of your gates, and blessed your children in your midst.” https://youtu.be/ByWfUx0QnyE?si=tMvsReGk1eaCRJC3

 

I had never heard Jerusalem of Gold, a very different Jerusalem of Gold and I have no idea who sings but it is truly magnificent, telling the story of the return to Jerusalem, to the Old City, to the Holy sites. I apologise for the advert in the middle. https://youtu.be/zRVnjucnWtg?si=AJonxsbi20BqepIt

As I write about Jerusalem, about Jerusalem Day, the news came in that a Hezb-Allah drone with an explosive warhead hit Rosh Hanikra, in the north of Israel, one of the towns that has suffered horribly from Hezb-Allah attacks for many years, and two people were seriously injured and one moderately and rushed to the Galilee Hospital. I wish them a speedy recovery; indeed, I wish the north of Israel a speedy recovery. After elections, assuming there will be a new government, the rebuilding of the broken north and south of Israel and return of those who were sent to safety and had no home to return to, we cannot lose two thirds of our country to our enemies.

 

So another week has passed and I have tried to keep our attention on Jerusalem, because she deserves this day of unity, unification, flag waving and generosity of spirit. I hope and pray that the Jerusalem march will be one of celebration and not one of triumph.

 

Undoubtedly, the most important day in our history was May 14, 1948, when Ben Gurion declared the State and named her Israel after the ancient tribe that once lived here.

 

Actually May 12^th was a momentous day too! Rachel announced that she really needed to see me and was already on her way. I had a class but told them I’d come late, worried that something was wrong. She walked in with my fabulous granddaughter Talia who had finally returned from 6 months in South America! Tears, hugs and a million emotions! The best surprise anyone could possibly have! Thank you Sally, thank you for giving her a home away from home and being her new BFF.

 

In fact, yesterday was wonderful too, starting with a quick visit from our friends Ronit and Yossi Dagan and then meeting the incomparable, amazing, Poodle (her real name is Alex but …..she’s Poodle because it reflects her hairstyle when she was in school with Daniel) and Rachel in Derech haGefen in Bet Zayit for a delicious lunch.

 

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Sending you all love from Jerusalem, the city that still lives up to her nine-tenths of beauty. So from our home in the Jerusalem Hills, Shabbat Shalom and Happy Jerusalem Day.

Sheila