The times they are a'changin'

5^th of May, 2024

 

Shabbat Shalom, I wish you a quiet weekend

 

Where do I start?

 

Students, George Soros, Iran, Police, demonstrations, hate, more hatred, and even more hatred? I suppose I should begin with the Students. Let’s face it, students demonstrate against power, always have, always will. In fact they demonstrate against almost anything because that’s what students do – but – and this is a huge but, this is different.

 

CNN and others have reported that many of the demonstrators are not students at all but instigators, inciters, there to create chaos and intentional anti-Semitism, anti-Israel, anti-American sentiment.

 

It is not a coincidence that the tents, in almost all the campuses, are identical. What does that tell us?

 

Young people wear kaffiyas, Palestinian flags, without even knowing where the PA or Gaza are. These are your future leaders! These young, ridiculously gullible, readily radical young people who have been brainwashed by the anti-Semitic, anti-Israel cant, are your future leaders.

 

The 7^th of October has conveniently been forgotten and the very students who fight for women’s rights support those who raped and tortured.

 

One fascinating outcome of the violent demonstrations in the Ivy League universities is reported by Forbes – employers are no longer looking to those elite universities for new blood, they much prefer young people from universities where they work hard and demonstrate less! Another is that Congress voted to widen the definition of Anti-Semitism in the Awareness of Anti-Semitism Act requiring the education department to apply the definition as outlined by the Holocaust Remembrance Alliance.

 

Two videos deeply affected me this week, for very different reasons. “Screams Before Silence” is a documentary of October 7^th. Difficult but essential viewing as young people tell their stories alongside what they recorded. https://youtu.be/zAr9oGSXgak?si=fnPGO0RhUhEfBuLi  The second is infinitely lighter but just as important. Noa Tishbi has teamed with Emmanuel Acho talking openly about their new book “Uncomfortable Conversations with a Jew” https://youtu.be/VGzITaEx8bI?si=u15-I5jENdI_wOhd

 

Just in case you thought that the UN investigation into the participation of UNWRA workers on 7^th of October might elicit some kind of truth, it didn’t. Impact-se delivered, personally, a 245 page document detailing the UNWRA involvement and knowledge of the events of October 7th and how UNWRA education had culminated in the massacre, yet the result was a foregone conclusion that UNWRA had nothing to do with it proving yet again that the United nations, as a whole, no longer fulfils the mandate for which it was formed. https://www.impact-se.org/unrwa/

 

Isn’t it strange? We Israelis worry more about you in the USA, Europe, UK, than you do for us? In a surreal fashion our lives here have taken a path, a daily repetition of deep regret for the families of hostages, the determination to bring them home and the understanding that our current government is not capable of any positive action. Having said that, life does go on. Just a few days ago I was in the centre of Jerusalem, something I usually avoid because the traffic is terrible and the parking worse. As I walked to my destination, I realised that the area was full of new coffee shops, hotels and bars and all of them were buzzing with activity, young people sitting and eating Israeli breakfast on tables set out on the pavements. It was a surreal situation, watching the faces, hearing snippets of conversation as I passed; visually it was impossible to grasp that we are at war but the conversations told me that we are.

 

Over the next two weeks, we will mourn the Holocaust, that eerie siren will remind us of what was and may be again; a week later we mourn our fallen, both in battle and in terror, the numbers of fallen soldiers has risen by over 600 and the victims of terror by an astonishing 1,500 or more over the last 6 months. As always, the solemnity of Remembrance Day will blend into the joy, this year a very subdued joy, of Independence Day. Too many Israelis will not be in their homes, refugees in their own country, after what I believe to have been a bad decision by this government to remove entire towns and villages from the North and South. Not just the obvious citizens living along the border with Gaza, those who suffered most on that ghastly day. The result? In the minds of the Iranian backed enemy, they succeeded in cutting the size of Israel down to the central region, without anyone, not Jew, Christian, Moslem, Druze, Bedouin, Circassian, no Israeli in the area that they bombard on a daily basis.

 

My goodness, I am depressing myself as I write the words, but it is our situation, one to which we have become accustomed. As always, I digressed, I meant to tell you why we worry more about you than about ourselves. Your enemy is not blatant, is not a face hidden behind a balaclava, it is your neighbours, your children’s friends, your academics and hides in unexpected places. The lies have overtaken the truth and Goerring’s plan of well repeated lies overwhelming the truth is working yet again. Most Western leaders understand and President Biden and Prime Minister Sunak have gone above and beyond in their attempts to stop the tsunami of hatred, but it is enveloping life as you/we know it.

 

I hope you don’t think that I am being flippant by changing mood, but alongside this chaos, Israel is winning prizes and medals in sport and science!

 

In science, Israel scored no less than 18 medals in the Science Olympiad. Revital Wallach, a 12th grade student who thinks physics is cool, competed against 74 countries and won a gold medal in the Youth Olympiad in Physics and was even announced as the most outstanding student in the world in the field of physics. Nir Cohen, won a gold medal in the International Chemistry Olympiad; Ori Frankel, won a silver medal in the International Mathematics Olympiad; Yair Shoham, won a silver medal in Mathematics.

 

Unbelievable performances by Israel's Karate team in North Macedonia Europe Championships where the Israeli team of all ages and various competitions won an astonishing 19 Gold, 5 Silver and 5 Bronze medals! 

 

Yarin Shriki, who survived the October 7^th massacre, won a Gold Medal in the Paris World Jujitsu Championships. He dedicated his win to his friend Yochai Ben Zacharia who was killed at the Nova Music Festival.

 

Raz Hershko, the Israeli Judoka, won Gold in the European Judo Championships! Israel won more medals than any other country.

 

Passover has yet again passed over! It was a busy time, entertaining friends who popped in or announced that they were coming, which is what I love. Apart from Seder night we had another three dinners and a lunch and as we ended the festival I saw the inside of my fridge for the first time in years. It was empty, devoid of food, the shelves bearing a few lonely left-overs! When the days of Passover are so close to the Sabbath, we tend to feel that we have entered Groundhog Day, the special meals running into one another! However, it’s over for another year, all our dishes and utensils are either down in the store room (thank you Zvi), the boxes carefully labelled for next year, or back in their rightful places in the kitchen cupboards. This Passover really was different to all other Passovers as we set a place for a hostage, used yellow napkins and said an extra prayer for the return of our hostages.

 

There is one very special person who lights the room wherever she goes. Her real name is Alex, but ever since she was about 12 or 13 years old she had a hairstyle which gained her the nickname Poodle, and Poodle she remained for the last 40 years or so! Rachel and I met Poodle in the Nehama coffee shop at the entrance to Givat Ze’ev the day after Passover. We sat amid racks upon racks of freshly baked breads, of every nature, which seemed to disappear before we had time to take in the aroma! Talk about going like hot cakes! Half baguettes and multi-seeded rolls, one would think that these people hadn’t seen bread for a week…… oh I forgot, they hadn’t. Anyway, our table was in the corner, literally surrounded by the most glorious aroma and we just enjoyed being together.  It was fascinating to hear that Poodle and her lovely husband David, were unsure about coming, having listened to the news on British TV, especially since they brought their sons to have the Passover Seder, but to her amazement, once here, they found that life here goes on. It’s a different life but we accept our new reality, understanding that we are fighting for our very existence, but as Poodle said, she goes to the supermarket, museums and everything feels just as safe as ever. For both Rachel and I, this very special lady, one of Daniel’s closest friends, brings light and a sense of confidence into our lives.

 

I’m thrilled to tell you that we have had many messages over the past week from friends who are coming to Israel soon and want to meet up with us. Of course the number of airlines is limited (crews watch too much BBC and CNN) but all the Israeli airlines are working overtime! When friends come to visit, when friends come to tell you that despite it all they love you and want to hug us all, life takes on a different perspective.

 

That’s it! I swear that I can smell the aroma of Rachel’s Challot (she promised me some today) calling me to see her and the children. I don’t want you to think that the only reason I go to see my daughter is because after we hug, she always has a hot, fresh from the oven, baby challah, a wonderful cup of tea and egg salad waiting for me on the table. The girls leave their studies to come out and hug me, real hugs, and Yosef tries to come back from his grandparents to complete the set.

 

Tomorrow we will celebrate Gili’s 15^th birthday. One of the greatest advantages of a second marriage is that we have amazing shared grandchildren. Gili is my granddaughter Ayala’s closest friend, spending whole days talking to each other on WhatsApp!

 

Zvi is getting ready to go to his parliament in the Botanical Gardens. I already know the subjects they’ll discuss. If only they were the real parliament, the real government, but then that’s another story altogether.

 

And so to music. Yet again we find so many lyricists are indeed prophets and commentators of what is happening in this world of ours.

 

One such prophet is Bob Dylan aka Robert Zimmerman, “The Times They Are A’Changin” https://youtu.be/uc5lyJDiyEI?si=w_g7CwulrznQiwmF

 

Hope, Tikva is not only our National Anthem, it’s what keeps us going! This wonderfully happy song all about Tikva made my morning! https://youtu.be/HsE1cAKM4Yc?si=9oOMwkSCIfTNVw-w

 

Five wonderful Israeli actors, all of whom are over a certain age, created a gentle satirical programme called Zehu Zeh which means That’s It. They began to sing at the end of their programmes and their careers took off in a totally different direction – they were wonderful! Other stars joined them each week and…….. Here they sing Lu Yehi – Let It Be, music and lyrics by Naomi Shemer. Their guests are Meir Banai and Shaike Levi. This a prayer more than a song https://youtu.be/Mf7VagPUG50?si=GXt_SYShhlUq5Smp  

 

I wish you a Shabbat shalom, a good weekend with love from our Jerusalem, the city for all religions, for all faiths, the city whose dazzling beauty lives on in all our hearts.

 

Sheila

  

Pots, Pans and Pesach

 

26^th April, 2024

October the 203^rd

 

Shabbat Shalom, Moadim le Simcha (what one says in the middle days of a festival wishing joy) I hope that your Passover Seder was meaningful and introduced a little joy into our complex lives. I promise to tell you all about our later, but want to begin with the news and a little story of birds.

 

The Indian or Common Mynah bird has a beautiful song, a song so loud that it drowns out the songs of others. It has the ability to mimic the songs of almost every bird they hear and their numbers are growing rapidly. However, the Indian Mynah is not indigenous, began with a very few and despite its beautiful song its bright yellow beak, yellow being a sign of danger in nature and tells the story of its aggressive nature. The fact is that during the mating season it will attack anything in its path from small creatures to humans. This morning, as I sat outside on our veranda, waiting in vain for the tiny, exquisite sun birds to visit the flowers as they do every day, I realised, they would not come to gather the nectar out of fear of the Mynahs sitting on our wall. My lateral thinking brain immediately understood the parallel, that the Mynahs are an absolute analogy for our situation. The song of our enemies is louder than ours and others fear to sing.

 

Avigail Idan was just 3 years old when she was taken hostage by Hamas alone, after seeing her parents slaughtered by Hamas. Yesterday, she sat upon the knee of a caring President of the United States, the one who promised to bring her home. To see the little girl playing and laughing in the Oval Office was almost surreal, but not unexpected from a rare politician, one who actually does what he promises. I have some friends who are blinded by politics, but whoever you vote for it is irrelevant, President Biden has stood by Israel, despite his feelings toward our Prime Minister. His unwavering support since October 7^th has given courage to other nations to support Israel verbally, militarily and morally.

 

Hersh Goldberg-Polin is alive, or was alive as of two days ago. The video clip filmed by Hamas shows a very different Hersh, but he is alive. His mother, the phenomenal Rachel Goldberg-Polin, a true Jewish lioness, fighting with everything she has for her son’s return, sat with her husband and spoke about her fight after seeing the Hamas video.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S1plXbypGuk Rachel was declared one of the world’s most influential people. Here she talks about what it means to know tha tone’s loved ones are hostages to Hamas https://time.com/6968288/rachel-goldberg-polin-interview-israel-hostages/

 

Columbia University, right there in New York is a hotbed of hatred and anti-Semitism. Even a few months ago even our worst nightmare would not have imagined an Imam calling students, students just like your sons, daughters and grandchildren, calling them to prayer on the front lawn of a premier university and shouting “Kill the Jews” “Free, free Palestine” and other twisted cries. It is utterly mind-boggling, terrifying the speed at which it happened. Young, naïve, pliable minds have been taken in by the lies, the Goerring-like lies which surround them. Not only Columbia, similar scenes can be found all over the USA. Entrepreneur Robert Kraft has withdrawn his funding of Columbia University.  Why has it reached this point? Because University Presidents and Deans thought that freedom of speech was more important than stopping the demonstrations at source. Remember the Mynah birds.

 

If you think it is only happening in North America, think again. Australia was the chosen country of so many Holocaust survivors who wanted nothing more than to be as far away from the cruelty of Europe that they went half a world away to find peace, and they found it. Melbourne has a thriving community that has given unwavering support to Israel as proud Australians and has given so much to Australia in every field, but this week the unthinkable happened. Young anti-Israel activists went around a school asking the students for a show of hands as to whether they agree with their view (anti-Israel) and taking photographs to identify those who responded. I can think of nothing more terrifying for a community that really doesn’t deserve it. So sad when it happened so close to Anzac Day.

 

It is irrelevant as to whether one is Jewish, Christian, Hindi, Buddhist, Atheist or Agnostic, the tide is becoming a Tsunami.

 

The United Nations investigation into UNWRA found that there was no proof that UNWRA workers were involved in the Hamas attack on Southern Israel and the rapes that occurred Well, did you expect a different decision?  Impact-se (www.impact-se.org ) had given the EU, UN, USA, UK, indeed every relevant country and organisation, proof that UNWRA workers not only taught hatred but they themselves were involved. We will fight this tooth and nail and our obvious allies are with us all the way. Again, I ask you to open the link to Impact’s work, not only the introduction of tolerance to the schoolbooks of many countries in the MENA region, but fighting our cause with blind and deaf countries in Europe.

 

To understand the anomaly in the funding decisions of the United Nations one must look at simple numbers. Rwanda, a war and famine struck country in Africa with a population of nearly 14 million souls received just $631 million in the period 2018-2023 where as Gaza, not the whole Palestinian Authority, just Gaza with a population of fractionally over 2 million souls received $2.3 BILLION JUST THIS MONTH! Are black faces, black African lives less important or is it the fact that there are 56 Moslem countries making decisions in the United Nations?

 

Not everything is bad news however! Yosef Taktuk from Kfar Yarka, a Druze village in the north of Israel, won first place in the European Kickboxing Championship, proudly representing Israel. Well done Yosef!

 

The Atid Cramim Binyamina High School won First place in the world in robotics, out of 6,000 competitors, in a competition initiated by the Technion University in Haifa.

 

I went to the fabulous Israel Museum this week. It really is exceptional, the permanent exhibits of both archaeology and Judaica are worth a full day of viewing, but this time I went with my friend Ronit who insisted I see a few small temporary exhibits. She led me to a couple of small side rooms which held a very special exhibit all about an exceptional man but the name of Erich Brauer. Erich Brauer was born in Germany and came to the nascent state of Israel in the 1930’s with one firm intent, to record the various Jewish ethnic groups in Jerusalem. Erich Brauer was an anthropologist who specialised in ethnology. I didn’t know that there was such a thing as ethnologist, if I had only known that would have been my choice of career. Anyway, as usual I digress. Brauer’s works are phenomenal. He was an outstanding artist, photographer and scientist, his records impeccable. He recorded the Bukharian community but found them to snobbish to respond and he particularly loved the Yemenite community for their archetypical Middle Eastern Jewish traditions and dress. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erich_Brauer

 

And so to Seder Night! I will not bore you with the preparations, the switching of dishes and utensils, the level of cleaning etc even before starting to cook; oh dear, I just did! Anyway, the table was set, the seder plate ready holding its symbols reminding us of our time as slaves in Egypt, but I felt something was missing, just didn’t know what. Zvi came home with the answer, yellow paper napkins. I sat and made 16 yellow paper symbols of the yellow ribbons of the hostage families, one for each person and felt that the table was not only beautiful, it was complete. Our guests began to arrive and we sat down to sing the songs of centuries, the children asking four questions, beginning with “Why is this night different to all other nights” and so the story begins, some in Aramaic and some in Hebrew, two languages that have survived the test of thousands of years and are still in use today. Four languages around the table, Hebrew (obviously), Russian, English and Spanish but then came the meal and all conversation in all four languages turned to other things, when not enjoying the Chopped liver, salads, Chicken soup, beef, chicken and fish, roast veggies, etc etc etc…….of course all home-made. We then said grace after meals, opened the door for the herald of better things Elijah, and then the part that the children waited patiently for, the songs! The one they love most is Chad Gadya – Only one kid, which in our home is accompanied by many appropriate animal sounds, ending with boooooooo for the Angel of Death and a huge communal cheer for the Almighty!

 

Not satisfied with 16 guests of Seder night, the very next day, lunchtime, we invited other loved ones. Zvi’s cousins Rachel and Yossi Ribak and Samuel Bettsak who was with us the night before too. Samuel is a Panamanian who has lived in Atlanta for many, many years and is a regular visitor and volunteer here in Israel and a long time friend. His wife Debbie went to Colombia to spend her lovely Mother Marianne’s 95^th birthday with her and Samuel chose to spend his Seder with us! Our friend Sam Albaranes made up the numbers. Tonight at our Friday night table we have friends. Irit and Yitzik Lev, Irit and Uri Dotan and Nattie and Yolli Zonszein. It will be lovely, especially since Zvi rushed out this morning to buy me a new soup saucepan since I suddenly realised that I don’t have a milky saucepan for Passover – I told you it’s complicated!  

 

Music speaks to me in a way that simple words cannot and this week I chose songs that speak tomes

 

Rami Kleinstein is a very special singer, a good man, and he wrote a song that really tells the story of how Jews survive even the worst of situations. Called “Little Gifts” Matanot Ktanot in Hebrew he reminds us of how much we have to be grateful for. Beautiful https://youtu.be/5JmZqEf_4w0?si=hcBfIyradgn4uRK1

 

Eden Golan will sing at the Eurovision Song Contest this week. The lyrics were changed as being too political in reference to October 7^th and now meet the rules of Eurovision and this brave, amazing singer will stand proud with changed lyrics and her amazing voice https://youtu.be/lJYn09tuPw4?si=aMVgRpvjBd1a-ynI

 

Al Kol Eleh, Above all this, is my favourite Israeli song, I am always deeply moved by Naomi Shemer’s words, the Honey and the Sting, written long ago, about life in Israel. The young soldiers and IDF orchestra together with the Israel Philharmonic Orchestra in a very special rendition https://youtu.be/tLjucRUyd4Y?si=YXyQnQsvV8YX8oJZ

 

That’s it lovely people. I hope you remember to see the beauty around you, to take a break from the TV news media which seems to only talk of doom and gloom. Remember to feel joy with your family and thank heaven for your friends. Walk in the countryside, look out from your window and enjoy the view and best of all, plant a tree, a bush or just spring flowers because remember what Martin Luther (the original one) said when asked what he would do if told the world would end tomorrow “I would plant an apple tree today” in other words, don’t necessarily believe the words of doom, and do something positive to ensure our future.

 

I send you love, a lot of love, and strength. Think of those hostages tonight, when you light the candles, be they Shabbat Candles or just to light your life a little. Remember our view over Jerusalem and that wonderful golden glow at sunset.

 

Shabbat Shalom

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Missiles and Matza

 

19^th April 2024

11^th Nissan, 5784

195 days since October 7^th

 

 

Tonight we begin Shabbat haGadol, the great Shabbat, directly before Pesach. We read from Leviticus 14 – 16 and learn all about Elijah whose role in Judaism and Pesach are fundamental.

 

Shabbat Shalom to all who care, Shabbat shalom to all who believe in our ability to survive and thrive once again, just as we did in the story of Pesach Haggadah (Passover story). Reading the story of the the Children of Israel’s passage from slavery in Egypt to freedom in our own land will be read in millions of homes in just three days. Not only Jews will read the story, many Christians who understand the significance will also read it, although few who are not Jewish will eat bitter herbs or eggs in salt water!!!

 

We woke this morning to hear that Israel had retaliated to the colossal Iranian attack of Saturday night. Oh, I forgot, we didn’t chat since then. OK I’ll start at the beginning. We had a lovely Shabbat, quiet, eating, walking through the nature reserve and chatting to neighbours, basically, doing what we love to do on Shabbat. That evening we watched the news then, what????? Iran was attacking Israel? Rockets, drones and ballistic missiles literally raining down on us? How can it be? Then the announcement that the ETA of the missiles etc was anything from 2 to 8 hours. The tension rose but for some reason I trusted the IAF to deal with everything, actually, there was nothing we could do but wait and check the contents of our emergency foodstuffs in the Safe Room. We were on line with our closest friends all over the world, they seemed to know more than we did. What’s that? American (USAF) and British (RAF) planes joined the Israel Air Force to repel and eliminate the various flying objects and keep us safe, joined in part by the Jordanians and the Saudis, a very important aspect of our common enemy. Red Alerts (sirens) all over Israel! My fingers were sore from responding to everyone on WhatsApp. By 02:00 we were exhausted so we did what all good Israelis who have seen many wars do, we went to sleep. 700 varied lethal flying objects sent from a huge and powerful country to eliminate a tiny country deemed as an enemy. Why enemy?  Because the Jews dared to return to an abandoned corner of what they see as an Islamic Empire. Imagine if any other country were to launch 700 missiles on another, they would be flattened out of existence in the retaliation!

 

The most ironic aspect to this situation is the Russia/Iran alliance – the Putin/Khameini alliance. The godless allied with the religious fanatics is surely the epitome of diplomatic irony!

 

Apparently, the response was not huge, nothing compared to the attack, but hit a specific target near Isfahan. Of course, Ben Gvir was very disappointed, called the retaliation “dardeleh” which means minimal in Hebrew slang, but thank heaven he doesn’t make decisions on such things.

 

Not everything is bad news however.

 

The United States, the Biden Administration, has made the decision to withhold over $400 million from UNWRA based primarily on Impact-se’s reports. We warned about the hate education that ultimately created the atmosphere for October 7^th years ago and our reports are the basis for the consideration for most Western countries. Please watch our exceptional CEO Marcus Sheff explain on i24 news. https://youtu.be/IryivohMkY4?si=Zr1JT9b-vOI-QNwp

 

Finally and at last, Minouche Shafik, President of Columbia University, has reached even her limit.  A large pro-Palestinian (anti-Israel) demonstration/sit in on the front lawns of the University was dispersed by NYPD who arrested over 100 demonstrators. Soon after answering questions at a Congressional Committee, where she prevaricated before finally admitting that the anti-Semitism on campus was beyond control, Shafik ordered the police to break up the demonstration. For your curiosity as to who this woman is……. Baroness Nemat Talaat Shafik, is an Egyptian, British, American aristocrat who also served on the British government. Her understanding of American students is, to say the least, scant.

 

Israel is, of course, known for her innovation and innovators in almost every field. The man most praised this week is Dr. Daniel Gold. Brigadier General (res) Daniel Gold, inventor of the Iron Dome.   In fact, not just this week, not just this month, not just this year but the years of constant bombardment from Gaza, Syria, Lebanon, Yemen…..the list is long, Daniel Gold saved thousands of Israeli lives. I know that Facebook is the site for those too old to be bothered with Tik Tok, but it was incredible to see the outpouring of love and admiration for this brilliant young man.

 

Seder Tables were set in many countries around the world, not in homes but in public places. Empty chairs, each place setting in hope for the return of the hostages. Even the most optimistic amongst us is losing hope. Realism is creeping in and we understand that our enemy is cornered and like every cornered rat they react with violence. An interesting point that was revealed (not verified)  on the Israeli Channel 13, not given to false claims, is that Qatar offered to exile the Hamas leaders living in utter luxury at their expense in their talks for the return of the hostages and it was not taken seriously by the allies. Such action would mean that the Qatari demand that we do not eliminate the Hamas leaders on Qatari soil would no longer be relevant.

 

And now to wonderful, normal, boring, traditional events! Pesach cleaning! I started late this year, my mind on Iran rather than Exodus, but somehow, managed quietly to not only catch up but be ahead of myself! The hardest aspect of the preparations is undoubtedly shopping. Imagine that Sunday morning, the morning after the night before, when I thought everyone would be sleeping late after Iran’s bombardment, I went to my less favourite supermarket, Rami Levi, to stock up on the special Kosher for Passover items I hadn’t bought previously. I was not alone! Oh boy was I wrong! It wasn’t the manoeuvering between the multiple trolleys trying to work out which shelves held the precious items, I actually succeeded, more or less, but then of boy, then I realised that the long line of people chatting beside their trolleys was not a social event, it was the queue for the check outs!! It would appear that many of the cashiers simply hadn’t turned up for work. I seriously thought of abandoning my shopping and running but, that’s just too anti-social for me, so I stayed where I was, began chatting to my co-shoppers, discovered that one of them had worked with Zvi many years ago, two were from Abu Ghosh and virtually everyone was patient and tolerant of the wait! Perhaps the night before led to a sense of proportion!

 

I would love to meet Hussein Jabar, an Israel who lives in Abu Ghosh. Hussein who works in the Ramada Hotel Jerusalem, becomes a very wealthy man for just one week every year. The Jerusalem Rabbis trust Hussein with the task of buying all the Hametz, or not Pesach foodstuffs, every year and that includes entire businesses too. He signs a document proving that it all belongs to him then “reneges” on the deal after Passover! Hussein is not only a very wealthy man for a week, he is also a wonderful, utterly trustworthy man all year round.

 

In 1970 Israeli Prime Minister Golda Meir was interviewed on British Thames Television. Her responses, her ability to explain are outstanding. Oh, that she were here today. https://youtu.be/w3FGvAMvYpc?si=-ASc6tySrKGZhKVJ

 

The Passover meal, the Seder, is very much a family affair. We begin with the blessing over a glass of wine, children recite 4 questions, the head of the household responds with the story of our determined fight for freedom from slavery, we discuss the four sons (I believe the four generations of dispersion), ten plagues and then food, starting with blessings over the bitter herbs, mortar, matzo, parsley…… my favourite par tis the charoset, or mortar representative, for which I follow my grandfather’s (my beautiful, beloved Zeidy) recipe. Ground almonds, grated apple, a little wine or grape juice, a little very fine chiffonade of lettuce to represent the combining, a dash of cinnamon and mix until perfect. Best made a day before. Yum!  After eating hard boiled eggs in salt water, Never mind about my description, here’s the real thing   https://www.chabad.org/holidays/passover/pesach_cdo/aid/1751/jewish/What-Is-a-Seder-Passover-Meal.htm  

 

Why is this night different from all other nights? Well, this night we will set a place for those who cannot celebrate Passover this year, we will drink a fifth cup of wine, we will say a prayer for their return and for their families and for the families of those who can never come home, the victims of the 7^th of October. This night will be different from so many over the past 80 years. We prayed that we would never need to say those extra prayers but pray we must. Here I combined the words of several suggested prayers to express what I feel.

 

The bitter taste of Maror is on our tongues, our tears are in the salt water. On this night when we celebrate our freedom we cannot rejoice until every soul heartlessly held captive is released. Help us, dear God, to bring them home. Please plant brotherhood, peace and friendship in everyone’s hearts. Remove jealousy and baseless hatred, and spread over us the shelter of Your peace; and we should soon merit to sing before You a new song.”

 

The songs this week came to me easily. The first is in Hebrew, but doesn’t need words to understand the pain behind the voices. Based on a song written after the Yom Kippur war, it is called the Children of the Winter of 1923 Ha Yeladim Shel Horef 1923 https://youtu.be/UV4SxF_cldY?si=ceKb8JTLpNY2hv6V

 

The next song is taken from the Passover Seder, the lyrics are part of a prayer that is so appropriate this year “And this (Hashem’s blessings and the Torah) is what kept our fathers and what keeps us surviving. For, not only one arose and tried to destroy us, rather in every generation they try to destroy us, and Hashem saves us from their hands.” Sung by Yaakov Shwekey and Yonatan Razel who arranged the music.   https://youtu.be/Y784Uw96Rbs?si=I9iFqbbOQ_rquoU2

 

The last song may seem inappropriate considering the way things are in the world today but I refuse to apologise for my choice or my attitude. The highly irreverent Monty Python writers and performers, so intrinsically British with a clever and irreverent sense of humour hit the nail right on the head. Life of Brian, one of my all time favourite films, made fun of all religions yet managed to make us laugh at ourselves. So here it is, not the original but Eric Idle singing his heart out to the delight of a huge audience. “Always Look on the Bright Side of Life”  https://youtu.be/JrdEMERq8MA?si=5QD1tnPPOMmi-qAG

 

I must quote my adored Auntie Lena yet again. In the days when we all collected autographs, usually family signatures, she always, but always wrote this blessing “May all your troubles be as thin as Matzah and they will surely Passover”

 

May all your troubles be as thin as Matzah, may our hostages come home and the families who lost their loved ones be consoled. We are a strong people; history has taught us to hold our heads high and expect better days.

 

Shabbat Shalom dear wonderful people. Remember the final words of the Passover Haggadah

Next Year in Jerusalem

  

 

With love

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

A mercurial world

 

12^th April 2024

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends, Shabbat Shalom and Eid Mubarak

 

I hope this missive finds you well, undoubtedly disturbed but well. I decided to begin with a quote from Rabbi Jeremy Rosen’s missive of the week rather than my own because what he wrote today is so incredibly pertinent. It is the story of Ben Hecht. He opens thus:

“We Jews have always been a fractious, divided people, ever since the days of Moses. If we came together, it was to respond to an external threat, and even then, there was always dissension. And so, it is today. But such conditions produce the most unlikely heroes. It matters not to me if they come from the left or the right, religious or secular. What impresses one is their devotion to the cause often to their cost. Ben Hecht was one such.” Read on because it is fascinating https://jeremyrosen.com/2024/04/ben-hecht.html

 

It is time to understand that left and right, traditional or modern, really don’t matter; no, they do matter, but in the context of this war, they should not be cause for dissention. Our enemies, the enemies of our entire way of life, enjoy nothing more than watching us argue! What is happening here in Israel, sadly encouraged by our current government, is encouraging the Iranians and the fact that their proxies have caused us to abandon homes in the north and south, (in their minds it’s just a start) shows them that we are scared of them. The very basis of our beliefs, Christian, Druze and Jew, our love of life and our determination to protect in their eyes is a weakness and with the lives of the hostages, whether alive or not, which for us are at the top of our priorities, for “them” are great bargaining points. Our view of life is diametrically opposed to the view of the Ayatollahs and their proxies.

 

The capricious, nay mercurial loyalties of our world, especially the West, is displayed in their choice of “underdog of the moment”. Ukraine is all but forgotten as the sheep follow their leaders in their condemnation of Israel for the plight of the poor Palestinians! I learned today that Israel ensured 500 lorryloads of food aid through and none of it has been distributed!! The outcry is beyond understanding as Israel is blamed for the war that Hamas/Iran/Islamic Jihad started. Don’t get me wrong, I feel deeply for the ordinary Gazan, despite the fact that they utterly support the oppressive organisation that put them into the situation. Their children are taught that it is greater to die than to live, a cruel reality when one already lives in penury, not knowing when the next meal will come your way.

 

The United States, Britain and Australia fought very tough battles against al Qaeda in Iraq after 9/11. They destroyed entire towns and cities, captured many people and the number of collateral damage deaths (aka innocent bystanders) was very high. They also captured a large number of terrorists who were sent to two possible prisons one was Guantanamo which was in Cuba - Cuba not on American soil- and the other was Al Ghraib in Iraq. I decided to do some research on the treatment of prisoners by our allies, in various wars, and the results were less surprising than I thought. I saw very revealing photographs of Iraqi (I assume Al Qaeeda) prisoners wearing orange boiler suits (if you recall the same suits that they made prisoners wear before beheading) crouched down on the mud, hands tied behind their backs with blindfolds and earphones to prevent them hearing or seeing anything, their guards standing over them with batons. Do you remember the outcry because the IDF made prisoners strip to their underpants in case they had body explosives? I don’t know what the “Yafeh Nefesh” or beautiful souls, want from us! We are in a fight for our very survival from a terrifying opponent who have you on the menu once they beat us!

 

Now to a very unpleasant subject which I hate to tackle, our government. The misuse of power is continuing, the misuse of government funding is continuing and sad to say that the demonstrations which had a single purpose, to bring the hostages home and support their families, has split into the demand for elections. It isn’t just a matter of left or right, it has become a many pronged problem with several demonstrations simultaneously. The Supreme Court passed the law demanding Haredi conscription to the IDF which engendered big demonstrations at the entrance to Jerusalem and in Bnei Brak; demonstrations have returned to Tel Aviv and Jerusalem demanding both a new government and Haredi conscription and of course, the families of the hostages who just want their loved ones back and are sick and tired of the current government who seem to have abandoned them as they  have the thousands who have been removed from their homes in the north and south, their business failing, their jobs gone. Now you see why I began with Rabbi Jeremy’s article? Israeli society is fractured, torn apart by bad management and tragedy, but unlike Humpty Dumpty, we will certainly be “ put together again”

 

On the other hand, Ramadan on the Temple Mount went relatively quietly. Very few incidents, the pious went to pray not to fight. Many Israeli Arabs have come to realise that they are as much a target of Hamas and Hezb-Allah as are the Jews and Christians! At this juncture I want to wish my amazing Moslem friends Eid Mubarak.

 

There is some good news too. The European Parliament passed resolutions condemning UNRWA and the Palestinian Authority for producing and teaching educational materials with European taxpayer money that incite to violence and spread antisemitism, linking them to the October 7 massacre. The parliament stated that “Education to hatred has direct and dramatic consequences on the conflict,” referring to the “despicable terrorist attacks carried out by Hamas on 7 October.” In an unprecedented move, the resolutions were initiated by the liberal center-left Renew Europe party, which helped garner support across the political spectrum. The resolutions were based on IMPACT-se’s recent UNRWA and PA research submitted to a UN investigation group headed by Undersecretary-General Catherine Colonna, as evidence of UNRWA’s neutrality violations. I am so proud of our CEO Marcus Sheff’s untiring work and equally proud to Chair the Impact-se Board. www.impact-se.org

 

Ariel Elkin is a young Formula 4 racing driver at the very beginning of his career. He achieved his first win this week and as he climbed on to the winner’s platform the announcer suggested he put down his helmet and receive his trophy in the usual double handed manner. He refused pointing to his helmet which had the photographs of all the remaining hostages on it. What an amazing young man https://youtu.be/f8opAPODGL8?si=qC-Y5b_US4Lgtq-c  

 

Dr. Doron Junger studied, both in Carmel College School and in Oxford University, together with my son Daniel z”l.  They played piano in concerts, both four hands and individually and in competition, although their paths were almost parallel, both studying medicine, Doron understood his appreciation of Daniel only after Daniel’s death. Doron is a thinker, he doesn’t take things for granted and his opinion article in The Times of Israel is well worth reading. His article is entitled “Will We Be Alright?” which asks the question that concerns us all. I recommend you read it. It isn’t long, is extremely well written and we can all identify with his question and his responses. https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/will-we-be-okay/

 

Our Shabbat picnic and walk were wonderful. The weather was perfect and we found a perfect site for our picnic beside the reservoir. It was such fun and although the children were more interested in each other than their surroundings I found myself talking to the fantastic display of wild flowers. The scene was completed by the right yellow flashes of the mimosa bushes which send out their long branches filled with tiny yellow balls of colour. The blossom on the wild fruit trees were no competition for the wild anemones though! Each patch of bright red flowers take one’s breath away. We then walked up to the Bet Zayit Dam, which is the source of the reservoir, wishing everyone we passed a Shabbat Shalom, stopping to make new friends along the way.

 

Since her visit last week, the lovely Sari Singer has been very busy! Visiting the injured soldiers in Sheba Hospital, picking fruit in the South, visiting the site of the Nova Festival and so much more. She was determined to fit as much as possible in her couple of weeks and she succeeded. Equally our friend Claudio Grubner came all the way from Vancouver to volunteer, tirelessly working every day, he managed to take some time and come to visit us to tell us all about his time here and of course to exchange news of our children and the fact that he will marry his wonderful girlfriend soon!  

 

Zvi has been at rehearsals almost all week! His excessive energy is waning slightly as each evening is either with the Choir of the Jerusalem Symphony or with his choir “Hakol Yachassi” because they have a performance on Sunday evening at Shalva. Me? I seem to be deeply immersed in Passover preparations, trying to see family as well, including taking Ayala (aged 25 with glorious long hair) to the hairdresser to convince her that her hair will be much healthier is the dry ends are cut. Of course she mourned the bottom few centimetres for an hour or so but she looks as stunning as ever!

 

I love Boaz Sharabi. His voice is pure and his choice of songs exceptional. Of all his songs this is my favourite. Look at the words of the English translation as he sings Halleva’I, if only. https://youtu.be/hwEatU285N8?si=fsR0a45EU0A5Mdjx

 

If you were to ask most Israelis who is the most Israeli of all Israeli singers, they would probably say Shlomo Artzi, well I would anyway! He normally writes his own songs, to the delight of his fans who know every word and sing along with him at concerts, but this song was written by another and tells the story of a soldier, long gone. https://youtu.be/mFWuKakl1TA?si=OzU5XWiKO29IPhUy

 

I was looking for a song by one of the young Israeli stars, most of whom I don’t hear but my grandchildren adore them and they influence their lives as the Beatles once did ours. Ishay Ribo and Omer Adam combined their great talents on this beautiful song which is equally a prayer and a cry. Unlike in our day they look so relaxed, so natural. I love it. https://youtu.be/PcJ_cXib_TU?si=nsyJnnCoZGDBfbgC

 

So that’s it for another week. I’m off to see Rachel and the children in an hour or so and then will try to clean another cupboard or two before Shabbat. Zvi is at yet another rehearsal and then off to his parliament in the Botanical Gardens. Since half of the participants are journalists, one Middle East/Arabic expert and other interested parties, it should be a fascinating meeting. I can predict the subjects discussed however. Firstly Iran, then the Prime Minister and the Cabinet, then whether Trump or Biden will win the upcoming elections and finally what one eats on the Seder night!

 

On my way to Rachel I will go down to the storeroom to find out what I have or haven’t in the way of cooking pots for Passover. Although not religious we are very traditional and changing all the dishes is what our parents and grandparents did and what I will do with my last breath. Funny really, I know all about logic and modernity, but faith and tradition have nothing to do with logic, it is emotion, it is honouring one’s ancestors and above all, that wonderful Hebrew word “hemshechiyut”. I don’t expect you to even try and say it, it means continuation, to preserve our traditions in perpetuity, to know where we came from and where we want our descendants to go. So I will clean everything that doesn’t move, prepare room for the incoming dishes and find a place to store the outgoing for the eight days of wonderful dishes that I always think we should eat throughout the year! I already bought all the dry goods, and cleaned the freezer to take most of the meats. Next week I will get the fish and the dairy and then take a deep breath and dive into changing everything over.

 

I wish you a good weekend. Be proud of who you are, stand up for who you are because only by knowing what this fight is all about can we win without the need for bloodshed.

 

Shabbat Shalom from my favourite city in the whole world – the one that received nine tenths of the world’s beauty, the one that we love.

 

Sheila