Friday, 20 June 2025

Almonds and Raisins

 

Friday the 20th of June, 2025

24th day of the month of Sivan 5785

622 days since the 7th of October and we still have hostages barely alive in Gaza

 

Shabbat Shalom,

 

As the TV hosts say “By popular request” I am writing again, but this will be a short one because I am afraid of boring you! Talking of boring, life in this region is never boring. When you are surrounded by potential enemies on every border and the puppet king in Iran decides to send at least 10 metres long ballistic missiles as a wake-up call, life becomes less boring.

 

Beersheva has become a major target and again last night. Perhaps they are after the high-tech industry there, although hitting an oncology department in a major hospital hardly counts as a legitimate target! Please understand, first and foremost that the Geneva Convention rules only apply to Israel, even when we are attacked, we’ve already come to the decision that the rest of the world doesn’t understand the Middle East or the implications of living in our neighbourhood.

 

Leor and three of his four girls just popped in for lunch and the pool. It’s such a treat even if my cleaner just finished making the apartment gleam! We ate outside on the mirpesset (hope you remember what that is) chatting away and then I heard something that they forgot to tell us on the television. The Weizman Institute and the Ben Gurion University Research Centre are also targets, indeed the Weizman Institute, a research institute of international renown, has been badly hit, research of years, maybe decades, has been lost because although whatever was on paper or computer can be reclaimed, the specimens that are the basis of all research cannot. Much of the country’s cancer research takes place in the Weizman Institute

 

As I sit on our veranda – mirpesset – or if I am pottering, taking care of the plants and trees, I often hear the planes overhead, our planes, our pilots, our incredible air force, I say a little prayer for them to come home safely. They really are the heroes of this conflict, flying thousands of kilometres to fight the fight for us, for Israel, for all of us.

 

As you know, I do my best not to bring politics into my missives, especially right now when we are literally fighting the fight of the entire world against Iran, but I have to mention this because it was surreal, certainly to me. Our Prime Minister stood in front of the rubble of destroyed buildings in a city in the centre of Israel, after a missile killed people in their homes, and he spoke to the people, as he indeed should. However, one sentence in an otherwise empathetic speech made me angry. When talking of the effect on those in the damaged buildings, people who lost everything, he said that his family was also affected by this war because they had to postpone his son’s wedding celebrations! What? I’m sorry to mention it, but it was so inappropriate. We are in a war for our very lives and the wedding should not have been a huge affair in the middle of a war.

 

Sorry about that, I know that you prefer me to speak only of the rosy side of Israel, but we have to accept that politicians will be politicians under even the worst situations.

 

Talking of politicians, Former President Clinton spoke (albeit haltingly) about the situation and agreed that we had to do something about Iran, agreed that even as the war continues, we must go into some form of negotiations, agreed that Prime Minister Netanyahu (for a change he gave due respect in using his full title) was hanging on to his position and could stay there for many years to come.

 

Politicians are a strange bunch but every so often one decides that his moral compass takes him to places that may cause him to lose his seat. German Chancellor Friedrich Merz chose to speak out during the G7 summit in Canada. He expressed strong support for Israel in its attacks on Iran.

“This is the dirty work Israel is doing for all of us. We are also victims of this regime. This mullah regime has brought death and destruction to the world” 

 

Most people around the world have forgotten about Gaza, although the war continues and the determination to bring back the hostages has not lost its urgency. The lies about starvation in Gaza also continue. I can only say that most countries in Africa would give anything to have the amount of food and supplies that the Gazans receive, despite the best efforts of Hamas. The Gaza Humanitarian Foundation  has distributed a total of 33,450,142 meals, yes that’s what I wrote, it’s not a typo. The organisation says that this amounts to 572,640 boxes. The group added that, on Thursday, all aid distribution at all sites proceeded without incident... “despite operating in one of the most volatile and complex environments in the world, our dedicated team on the ground continues to deliver life-saving aid to the people of Gaza – safely, efficiently, and without incident.” In addition, 74 truckloads of aid went through from Israel.

 

With all the “balagan” that wonderful Hebrew word for utter chaos, the families of the hostages are terrified that their children, husbands, fathers still in captivity, will be forgotten. We cannot let it happen. We have to keep on fighting their fight, their personal war to bring their loved ones to safety, out of the tunnels of Hamas and PIJ where they receive daily beatings and humiliation. There are no meals given out by the Gaza Humanitarian Foundation for them. Nobody cares if they starve to death while those above them are now receiving daily rations. The families are going through a form of heartbreak that is almost impossible to imagine, no I am wrong, it is beyond imagination or nightmare. The Hostage Square demonstrations have thinned out to almost nothing, not because we have forgotten them but because people are scared off by the Iranian missiles. We have to find another way to show our support, to heal the huge hole in their lives knowing that even if their loved ones return, they will never be the same.

 

I want to tell you about an amazing friend called Rachel Heisler Sheinfeld. Rachel is the Executive Director of the American Friends of Soroka Medical Centre. Rachel loves Soroka, she lives and breathes Soroka, visiting frequently and leading the fundraising and information for Soroka. Can you imagine her heartbreak when the hospital was hit by an Iranian missile – twice? Rachel, I just want you to know that I will help you find a way to rebuild what was destroyed and together with good people the hospital will be bigger and better than ever.

 

So, how are we going to spend out Shabbat? Obviously we will not have visitors, the children and grandchildren will stay close to their safe rooms rather than travelling on the roads at night. Perhaps we can catch up on some sleep, the disturbed nights of this week have left us jet-lagged! I will suggest a walk in our park to Zvi, he’s always ready to walk with me and as long as we don’t do that traditionally English thing (I’m Welsh anyway) and go out in the midday sun! The greatest advantage of where we live is that children can go out to play, be it football or skateboarding, right here and they enjoy freedom while within reach of a mother’s call to the safe room. I really don’t want you to think that we are all sitting at home quaking in fear, waiting for the next bombardment, it takes more than the Iranians to knock the determination to live our lives out of us. One of my favourite things is that in our creativity group we are all “creating” at home! We do whatever we do and then put a photo up on Whatsapp, each giving the other a boost as we compliment our work.

 

Actually, yesterday I went to my movement class, as I think I told you, and on the way home I had a wonderful conversation with one of my fellow dancers. She lives right next to the village library and organises get togethers (is that grammatically correct) for the village and our community. Anyway as we each went our separate was she looked up at the historic building in our park and told a wonderful story of how she and her husband were married right here in the Big House and the park many years ago, certainly before our buildings were even thought of! She told me that she brought in chairs, music, catering and guests, despite the challenge that everyone insisted she couldn’t pull it off – the underestimated Tirza!!! I love these stories and told her that she had to write it down for posterity.

 

I had two lovely phone calls this morning. One from our very special friend Pauline all the way from Melbourne, Australia and one from my lovely Jill in Leeds, UK. Obviously I also speak to my son Gideon in the UK who is probably more up to date with the news than I am and with Rachel right here in Jerusalem. Anyway, I wanted to tell you what an incredible fillip it is to our state of mind when we realise how much people care. I know it is tough for you to be so far away with hearts so close to us.

 

That’s it! I did promise that I’d make it short and after all everything is relative. Zvi has gone to his parliament, in a very limited form, not in the Botanical Gardens but in our local mall where there is a shelter within easy reach. Me, I’m not going to Rachel and family, not going over the hill of Nebe Samuel (Samuel’s Tomb) won’t see the fantastic panorama of Jerusalem, but I’ll be thinking of all of the above and in a minute will drive Rachel nuts by doing a Whatsapp video while she is in the middle of kneading the Challah with her hands covered in the aromatic dough!! I will have to be satisfied with my view of Jerusalem in the distance, the scent of the pine trees and the lemon blossom, the knowledge that we can do this, we can rid the world of a cruel, despotic, theocratic regime that has brough chaos to the world.

 

Shabbat Shalom,  I  wish you a weekend filled with blessings and good will

שבת שלום ומבורך,

What’s that? You want a song? OK I’ll put on my thinking cap but on condition. The condition is that I want to hear from you!!

 

Shulem Lemmer sings the entire and original rendition of October Rain. He writes - “In these times, when we're focused on not drowning in the hurricane of hatred and antisemitism, our personal feelings often take a backseat. Since that dreadful day in October, our hearts and minds have been solely focused on our land and people. From the moment I heard this song, I felt compelled to cover it, as it conveyed so much of what we've struggled to express in recent months. The original "October Rain" was deemed "too political" for the world stage, leading to the release of a more neutral version, "Hurricane." I am sharing "October Rain" in its raw, authentic form to voice our nation's true sentiments”

Still so appropriate

https://youtu.be/D2gBJ58drtg?si=nZB1bUFEwLF1AFXa .

 

Oh all right, one more. When I was a little girl my beautiful Mother used to sing a Yiddish song, she wasn’t a great singer, indeed didn’t sing a great deal, but this was her favourite, and it brings back memories of a far distant childhood and a mother who was taken from us too soon. Roshinke smit Mandlen, Raisins and Almonds. A lullaby https://youtu.be/wsqZCcjxeuA?si=0nUiuHZWm5bSYPds

 

May God bless you that you may be surrounded by kindness and love

 

Shabbat Shalom

Sheila

 

PS It wasn’t that short was it? Before Stanley and Barry tell me that I give them a headache I will apologise!!! Don’t forget to write and say hello

 

PPS. What can I tell you, apparently the powers that be didn’t want you to miss out on anything! We just came back from the pool at a somewhat faster pace than usual. We had the warning message on our phones and almost as we walked in the door, we got the alarm both on our phones and in the village. We are now 6 of us in the mamad which tells you just how lucky we are. First reports suggest injuries in Haifa, I hope I am misinformed. Shabbat Shalom seems more like a dream

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