Friday, 31 January 2025

The Day that Gadi and Agam came home

 

30th January 2025

2nd of Shevat, 5785

482 days since 7th of October

 

Shabbat Shalom

 

 

I don’t know how to express my horror at the scenes yesterday morning as we watched what was meant to be a joyous moment as two more hostages were released. We stared open-mouthed in disbelief, then in a deep nauseating fury as the bloodthirsty, baying, gloating mob seemed to engulf the two Israelis. I honestly thought they would not get to the Red Cross vans alive. They were paraded, a final humiliation as if 16 months of bondage, of being held in inhuman conditions, was not sufficient. We saw Arbel, her terrified face occasionally visible in the mob, but Gadi seemed to be engulfed and we thought he was lost. Incredibly, as they sat in the Israeli Air Force helicopter, he simply hugged Arbel, a hug to tell her it was alright, they were going home. Gadi Moses was kidnapped without his hearing aids or glasses. He spent 16 months in captivity, hearing and seeing little, yet, while surrounded by a baying mob he held his head high. His first words when he finally stepped off the helicopter were “I want to rebuild Nir Oz” the kibbutz from which he was kidnapped on October 7th. https://youtu.be/w80ZXXjk5wk?si=XwVU40HLBDNwuQi4

 

Each and every one that returns is met with love, not just from their family but from the entire nation. One scene that struck at my heartstrings was that the four observers who returned less than a week ago, Liri Elbag, Daniela Gilboah, Naama Levi, and Karina Arayev, were busy making posters to welcome Agam Berger home. As soon as Agam had reunited with her family, they met her in the hospital and the five girls hugged and wept in relief that all the observers who survived the storming of their base had come home.

 

Last week I described our national mental state as like a tsunami of emotions, the sheer unadulterated joy at seeing families reunited, praying that they can overcome the diabolical trauma of the last 16 months, grieving the young lives lost, the names of the soldiers who fall and realizing that we have a government that is, for whatever reason, incapable of doing what they are meant to do – protect our people. As Lucy Aharish stated, “someone who cannot bring 90 people home cannot govern 10 million”.

 

Western leaders suggest that various countries in the region take in Gazans until the basic structures of Gaza can be rebuilt. They really don’t understand, cruel as it may sound, nobody wants them! No country in this region will take responsibility for a people that has had hatred inculcated into every aspect of their lives for 50-60 years! Gazans have nothing else; the concept of free thought has been brainwashed out of them replaced by a bloodthirsty demand for vengeance. It is something that few leaders understand, or choose to ignore and put the onus on other countries, especially on Israel, to come up with a solution.

 

Education either raises people up beyond all expectation, teaching them to live full and worthy lives, or it can drag them down into a Sargasso Sea of hatred and despair. Hamas thrives on the self-fulfilling prophesy of hate-filled education. Impact-se revealed this week that Hamas is already prepared to go back to the schoolbooks that bred generations of violence, culminating in the 7th of October. Thus Israel has banned UNWRA from East Jerusalem.

 

George Orwell wrote “The further a society drifts from truth the more it will hate those who speak it.” So it is in too many Western societies. University campuses in the USA and the UK; Australia, is suffering from the syndrome of hating truthtellers, Canada too, both countries suffering from Woke governments who would not know the truth if it hit them in the face, which is precisely what is happening now. Most of Europe is waking up but it may well be too late and Scandinavia is lost.

 

This week the world outside Israel commemorated International Holocaust Day, the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz by the Russian troops. Ironically the 27th of January was declared International Holocaust Day by the United Nations, that man-made body which has not, in any way, shape or form, tried to prevent another Holocaust. Ceremonies were held in Jewish and non-Jewish communities worldwide, with great dignity.  However, not everywhere. In a ceremony in Dublin, the Irish President Higgins made a sly comparison between the Shoah and Gaza (Palestine) an unconscionable comparison. There is no comparison to the calculated and organised decimation of the Jews of Europe, ethnic cleansing. Those who make that comparison are blind, deaf and stupid. The burgeoning population in Gaza denies genocide and to suggest that Israel had genocidal intentions is to turn the truth on its head. Sadly, the sole intention that binds the Palestinian people is the genocidal dissolution of Israel.

 

And so to our week

On Monday evening we met Nancy and Harry Bloomfield in the gorgeous and delicious Eucalyptus Restaurant, right opposite the walls of the Old City in the Artists quarter of Chutsot ha Yotser. I love the food prepared by the Chef Owner Moshe Basson. All food is based on Biblical herbs and recipes and although Moshe, an old friend, was not there last night Zvi called him so that he could say hello to Nancy and Harry. The conversation is always lively when Harry is around and it bounced from current politics to English language, especially concerning the word Verandah, which is yet another English word emanating from the Indian during the Raj, and my use of said verandah. However it was fun and delicious as always, Nancy and I hobbling through the ancient stones to return home.

 

On Tuesday I had a wonderful surprise guest as Sharon Voss came to visit! I really love Sharon but somehow, despite both of us moving out of central Jerusalem to the rural beauty of this area, we don’t seem to get together. I was very excited when Sharon actually like my rather strange creations in Crafting group!!!

 

Wednesday and Rachel and Yosef, together with Yosef’s friend Raphael, drove down to an army base beside Gaza to present the soldiers with 30 warm jackets that friends had contributed. They were absolutely thrilled. The timing was right because the next day they went into Gaza where the nights are cold and anyway, they deserve every gift that they receive. These incredible youngsters put their lives on the line to protect us.

 

Last evening we met up with friends on Gaza Street. Really, not only called Gaza Street but the private home of the Netanyahu family is just down the road. Many streets in Jerusalem begin at the Old City and were the roads to Bethlehem, Hebron, Jaffa etc, the roads that merchants travelled with their wares. Anyway back to Gaza Street aka Azza Street. I had a rather problematic day so decided to go with Zvi to meet his musical friends for a bite to eat. As usual the subject turned to the history of Jerusalem – well hardly surprising since Zvi really is an expert – and what everyone calls the “old Knesset” on King George Street. Apparently Ben Gurion had no intention of moving the parliament from Tel Aviv to Jerusalem until there was a final political arrangement with the Arabs. However, he heard rumours that the Arab population intended making Jerusalem, the Holy City, into their symbolic city, so decided to move the Knesset to Jerusalem. The first sittings were held in the Jewish Agency building, and on March 13th 1950, the Knesset moved to Froumine House, a former biscuit factory on King George Street and Knesset sittings were held there for more than 16 years when the current Knesset building was dedicated in 1966.

 

When someone that you love passes away it doesn't matter how old or how young it's always a shock. Tema Gaba z”l  represented my childhood, my parents friends and everything that was good about the community and Cardiff in South Wales. At the incredible age of 102 she kept all of her daughter Susan's close friends listening in rapt attention to the stories she brought from our hometown, stories about our families and our parents that we thought were forgotten. I love the fact that after many many years living in Israel she still had that lovely lilting Welsh accent that warmed my heart. We will talk about her with great fondness, her smile and her penchant for lovely hats, for many years to come. May her soul rest in peace and the family be consoled among the mourners of Zion

 

I forgot to tell you that last Shabbat Zvi and I crossed the road to the Nature Reserve for a little walk in the glorious fresh air that our area is famous for.  We set off under blue skies and crisply cool air and then almost immediately I saw it! The huge almond tree that I saw last week in my movement class, standing proud with its pinky white blossom, harbinger of spring and better things to come. As we walked we found wild cyclamen, both light and dark pink, seemingly emerging from the stoney ground, proving that things here can grow if left to their own devices.  We met people along the way “Shabbat Shalom” and “B’sorot Tovot” which is a wish for good news.

 

Tonight Zvi’s boys and their families are coming for Shabbat Dinner. Once they walk through the door they don’t allow me to move! They serve the food, clear the table, put everything back in its place and turn what could be a working night into a very enjoyable one.

 

And so to music.

Shiri Maimon is an Israeli singer with a beautiful voice. She has used that voice to spread the word of the plight of the hostages and to sing this amazing song “I’m Coming Home” https://youtu.be/f5-q8x8ERnM?si=Ee9yPu1pmu7L7YmE

 

Stevie Wonder sang this song many years ago and it has been my favourite, among many favourites, since I first heard him sing in concert.” A Place in the Sun”. Listen to the words and you will see how appropriate it is for these troubled times https://youtu.be/f5-q8x8ERnM?si=Ee9yPu1pmu7L7YmE

 

The words of the final song need no complicated translation because they repeat the blessing “Shabbat Shalom Umevorach” A blessed and peaceful Shabbat, over and over again and is what we all sing before getting down to the serious stuff of blessings over the wine, the Challah (bread) and then the meal. It is a joyful way to bring everyone to the table. The late Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach sings https://youtu.be/Zh2Dv_W-Xqw?si=km97JEUyLY8gtWdz  

 

I often write about Rachel’s children because I see them most frequently but I am equally in love with my grandchildren outside Israel, Sammy, Olivia and Zachary in London, Joshua and Callie in New York, Zvi’s grandchildren Amit, Gili, Ori, Yuval, Ella and Yonatan here in Israel but don’t live right next to us and I am equally proud of each and every one of them, bless the day they were born. There is something so special about grandchildren, the Hebrew expression “basar besari” the flesh of my flesh probably expresses it best of all. The fact that these human beings are the result of our children is a miracle! Grandchildren are our future, the future of life on earth, so teaching them to love, the think, to rationalise and to make this world a better place is the most important inheritance we can leave behind us. It’s all about education and every day we understand that education to think for themselves can change the direction of everyone around us is a step in the right direction.

 

I think back all those years ago when Pastor Mike Evans knelt before Kinneret Chaya and told her “You can turn your scars into stars and bitter into better” and that is what we have to do now. We cannot seethe, turn our anger into a sick society and call for revenge, we have to prove our own strength and teach, teach, teach.

 

This weeks Torah reading speaks of the death of the first born, the plague that broke Pharoah, the plague that finally forced him to set the Jewish slaves free. We do not need to impose plagues, the time has passed, we are free and here in our own land. We just have to learn to stand tall in the face of adversity. However, one thing, the first law God asked of us upon leaving Egypt, was to honour a Jewish calendar, Jewish months (lunar) and so we do until today. Today is the second day of the month of Shevat, 5785.

 

We await the release of the three hostages who are due to come home tomorrow. I pray that they will not have to suffer the baying mob of yesterday and will come home safely to their loving families.

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends. Stay strong, stay safe and stay close

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

 

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