Friday, 25 July 2025

Hate is not a word, it is a disease

 

25th July 2025

The 658th of October

 

Shabbat Shalom dear friends. Today is also the Feast of St. James for the Catholic and Anglican Churches and Jews are in the second week of the three weeks of penitence which lead up to Tisha b’Av, the commemoration of the destruction of both Temples.

 

During the 3 weeks we rue the internecine hatred which led to the destruction, Sinat Hinam.

 

Hate is not a word, it is a disease

 

If I were to fulfil my dream, it would be that even those to whom my beliefs are diametrically opposed, be it politically, religiously, indeed any way, that we can talk about our differences, quietly and politely. To sit and have a delightful meal with people that I like even though they are very different, even opposed to my way in life, then my dream would come true.

 

Today I don’t want to concentrate on the news because most of you read and try to interpret the biased information that you get from your local media so you don’t need me to tell you, unless of course, there is something specific that one cannot untangle from the massive knot of lies told about Israel. Today I want to concentrate on what it means to be an Israeli right now, in the current situation.

 

We feel abandoned, misunderstood, helpless in the face of obscene criticism from countries whose history tells of vile racism, the murder, nay slaughter of minorities and political corruption. I don’t attempt to support the statements of some of our Cabinet members and as you know I am not a fan of our current government, but on the other hand I am angry at the opposition which instead of unifying, creating a shadow cabinet and preparing a manifesto, a political and national trajectory, they concentrate on  infighting as to who is the leader of which party – a power struggle between similar ethics.

 

It is hard when our fellow Jews and Christians suggest that we should keep quiet, don’t speak Hebrew in public (in the case of Israelis) hide your crosses and stars of David, don’t wear your kippot in public, etc etc etc…. don’t be obvious Jews. I have to admit that although I no longer live outside Israel, it makes my blood boil! Why in heaven’s name should we hide our identity? We still have the most amazing way of life, for all Israelis, not just the Jewish ones. Why should we all, Jews, Christians, Arabs, Druze indeed all of us, why should we be ashamed of the most incredible advanced society in the entire Middle East and far-flung places.

 

I have to refer to the incident of the French youngsters returning from camp in Spain, on a flight home. The way it was reported, they made a noise by singing in Hebrew and were thrown off the flight. In fact, the pilot had a Palestinian flag on the armrest beside him (there is a photograph), before the flight they were told to hide any identifying Stars of David or skullcaps, and then when they sang in Hebrew and they were thrown off the flight; their 21 year old madricha (leader) thrown to the ground and handcuffed. They were not Israeli, they were French and I want to hear the French government react angrily. I don’t have all of the details and there are many rumours about who the pilot was and whether the youngsters were somewhat rumbunctious, but it was an ugly scene. Before their flight began their male leader gave the following instruction (recorded by one of the youngsters for Instagram. “Hear me out. The rules are very clear. Everything here that is religious, sign, trail, orange things, kippahs, we take off, tzitzit we put away in our pants, tefillin we put in your suitcase. We leave nothing religious on show. You will listen to the rules. We will embark. There won’t be one word. Not one sound. No one gets up, without permission. Even if it’s to go the washroom. We will not give them the opportunity to kick us off for these Jew-hating acts. Even if you have to go to the washroom, ask permission. And I count on your maturity to play the game.”

 

Israel may not be perfect, although the people are better than those who currently lead us; we are a country of creators, of innovators in all spheres, from medicine to biochemistry, rocket science, civil engineering and agriculture, spheres that we share with third world countries, predominantly African, to help them feed their millions and live a better life. Our innovation in the field of hi-tech is well known, but I wonder how much is known of our humanitarian work  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mashav

 

Someone who never hid his roots, indeed he was proud of his roots, proud of the fact that he emigrated from Iran to the UK as a Jewish refugee, made good and became a Member of the House of Lords for his contribution to education in his home city of Manchester. When we were taken to the House of Lords by Lord Stone, Lord Stone of Blackheath, (my former youth leader in Habonim) we sat in the visitor’s section and heard the maiden speech of Lord Alliance, David Alliance. In every sentence he emphasised his Jewishness, how he was welcomed to the UK, of the importance of education and it was all with a heavy Iranian accent which he didn’t attempt to hide. David Alliance passed away this week, may he rest in peace, a man who celebrated who he was and never gave in to those who turned their hate on him.

 

Now to explain what is happening in the USA (and elsewhere) on campuses and streets.

 

On October 1, 1993, about 20 senior leaders of Hamas, most of whom lived in the U.S., gathered at a Courtyard by Marriott airport hotel in Philadelphia in order to undermine the Oslo Accords, what they viewed as an agreement made between “infidels and infidels.” Unbeknownst to them, the F.B.I. was listening in.  I don’t want to write a long tirade of their actions but it was clear in its intention to slowly, carefully, infiltrate universities, media and government creating disinformation. Read for yourselves https://airmail.news/issues/2024-8-10/hamas-in-america-the-untold-story  Students for Justice, in Palestine, just one outcome of that meeting, is a pro-Palestinian college student activism organization in the United States, Canada and New Zealand. Their example? The Enabling Act Of 1933 which allowed the Reich government to issue laws without the consent of Germany’s parliament, laying the foundation for the complete Nazification of German society. 

 

Back to good news

 

First and foremost, we had a good week! We were woken just once, the usual Houthi wake-up call, but despite their best efforts nothing even reached Israeli skies, we shot it down beforehand. On Sunday afternoon we went to the beautiful Cinematheque, opposite the walls of the Old City to see a brilliant documentary film called October 8 (October H8te) which explains so much of the explosion of antisemitism in the USA. It is a must see. On Monday we met friends for breakfast in Ella Restaurant opposite the Botanical Gardens then on to Givat Ze’ev to buy the fish for tomorrow. What is tomorrow? Well, in the morning I had  a fascinating meeting with Marcus Sheff who caught me up on the latest miracles of Impact-se (www.impact-se.org ). Marcus, the CEO of Impact-se, managed to fit the incredible advances of education in our region and beyond in the few minutes that he had before the next meeting! That evening we had a “Come Dine With Me” in our home with another two couples. We had already been to their homes and so there were hugs and renewed friendship as we sat around the table talking about who we are. On Wednesday we met with the Silvers, Ira, Tomer and Sheli, in the Music Square in the Centre of Jerusalem for a get-together before Sheli flies off to Canada to be a leader in a youth summer camp for the third year running. Yesterday I went to my movement class. We don’t just move, we talk about whatever bothers us, mostly about what is happening here in Israel, and then we danced, together and individually, to the wonderful Dolly Parton and the Beatles! Talia and Rachel arrived and Talia sat to talk to Saba Zvi and then we went off to Motzeleh where Rachel and I had their phenomenal shakshuka, all made on the spot! Today we are basically relaxing.  

 

I don’t know if you have ever heard of Blessing Afrifah, proud Israeli, who became the first athlete to win back-to-back European U23 200m titles since 2013. Blessing climbed on to the winner’s podium flying the Israel flag. Blessing was born in Tel Aviv and grew up in Ramat Gan. His father worked in the Ghanaian Embassy. Blessing has a sister, also born here, with the beautiful name Mercy. When he received his full Israeli citizenship he said that now he could win even more medals for Israel. Blessing served in the IDF.

 

There is a song from Les Miserables which gives you an inkling of how we feel. Harel Skaat sings Empty Chairs at Empty Tables. https://youtu.be/CV4SRV07wg8?si=-3GhWhR2eTo9qqZQ

 

You may not recognise the name Keren Peles. Keren Peles is a singer songwriter and her most recent work is “New Day Will Come” the song which represented Israel in the Eurovision song Contest. Here Keren sings with Miri Mesika in a rendition that brought tears to my eyes. Two incredible Israeli women singing together in Keren’s home studio https://youtu.be/WT7WFPgtx08?si=7evg4QDEX0QKlVAk

 

The Banai Family is huge, originally from Jerusalem, an entire generation born near Mahane Yehuda, has influenced show business, through song, theatre, comedy and social consciousness. This song sung by Ehud Banai many years ago, tells a very important story https://youtu.be/YiNrTJbJ1eA?si=9la5_SrdgxZkM_bo

 

That’s it! Zvi went to two parliaments today, he is still at the second one, his usual gathering in the Botanical Gardens. They sit and talk about our “situation” and try to come up with answers, which of course will never reach the powers that be, but they can at least influence their surroundings.  I am off to Rachel and the aroma of freshly baked Challah! I love it! I have the chance to talk with Talia, who is mostly in Netanya doing her Sherut Leumi (a form of national service whereby young people literally serve communities and individuals) Of course I will pass my second favourite view, the absolute favourite is the View From My Veranda!! I have to admit that the view from Nebe Samuel (Samuel’s Tomb) is spectacular on a clear day, the entire city laying before us as far as the eye can see. I will then come home and collapse into bed for my “shlafshtunder” my siesta, before getting everything ready for Shabbat.

 

That’s it! I hope you enjoyed your introduction to life here in Israel, our worries, our joys and our fears. I wish you a beautiful Shabbat, a calm weekend, and some very good news, it’s high time.

 

With much love from our veranda and it’s view

Sheila

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

No comments:

Post a Comment