21st of May 2026
5th Sivan, 5786
Good morning, Shabbat Shalom and Chag Shevuot Sameach and a Blessed
Ascencion Day
The
difficulties of peace are better than the agony of war.”
—
Menachem Begin
Shevuot celebrates our receiving of the Torah — not only faith and
ritual, but the moral foundations of how we live, how we treat one another, how
we behave as human beings. The Torah contains 613 commandments, and while none
of us manages to fulfil them perfectly, surely the most important among them
are those that demand decency, compassion, justice, and respect for others.
That is why the behaviour we witnessed this week from Minister
Itamar Ben Gvir and those around him felt so profoundly shaming. Cruelty,
provocation, and hatred are not expressions of Jewish strength; they are a
betrayal of the very values we celebrate on Shevuot. The violent extremists
once romantically described as “Hilltop Youth” are not settlers safeguarding
Israel’s future, but lawless individuals whose actions damage innocent people,
deepen division, and stain the moral fabric of this country we love so deeply.
Criticism of such behaviour is not anti-Israel; on the contrary, it comes from
caring enough about Israel to expect better from those who claim to represent
it.
It is also important to remember that the very framework of the
Oslo Accords recognised that both Jews and Palestinians would continue living
in Judea and Samaria while final status arrangements were negotiated. The
existence of Jewish communities there is therefore not, in itself, the issue.
One may support or oppose settlements politically, but there is a profound
difference between lawful communities — families building homes, schools,
farms, and lives — and violent extremism carried out in their name. Far too
often the distinction is deliberately blurred, unfairly tarring entire
populations because of the actions of a dangerous minority. Most Israelis,
including many settlers themselves, want nothing more radical than safety,
stability, and the possibility of living alongside their neighbours without
fear.
I love Shevuot! The supermarket shelves suddenly become a sea of
cheesecakes, cream cheeses, yoghurts and enough dairy products to keep the
entire country happily overfed for days. Homes are filled with the smell of
baking blintzes and cheesecakes, with every family utterly convinced, quite
rightly, of course, that theirs is the best. Meanwhile, on the kibbutzim,
harvest festivals are in full swing, children leap about in the hay, tractors
are decorated, and otherwise perfectly respectable adults appear in alarming
“Farmer Joe” outfits which would not look out of place in an old village fête.
Babies born on the Kibbutz or moshav since last Shevuot are celebrated, their
names often read out for all to hear.
And somehow this lovely festival, marking the giving of the Torah
at Mount Sinai, also weaves together one of the gentlest and most touching
stories in the Bible: Ruth, who chose loyalty and love over comfort and
familiarity, following her mother-in-law Naomi with the immortal words, “Where
you go, I will go.” It is during the harvest that Ruth meets Boaz in the
fields, a story of kindness, dignity, belonging, acceptance and ultimately
renewal. So Shevuot becomes a perfect mixture of spirituality, harvest
festival, family gathering and national cheesecake competition — which feels
very Jewish indeed.
In easier times, on a Shavuot weekend like this, we would simply
head north; to the breathtaking beauty of the Galilee, to tiny towns, kibbutzim
and villages bursting with flowers and greenery. We would stop in Druze
villages where extraordinary women prepared wonderful kosher meals for visitors
from Israel and abroad, and the greatest concern of the day was whether one had
packed a hat and enough water for the walk.
Now the reality feels painfully different. Even during what is
supposedly called a ceasefire, Hezbollah continues its explosive drones, and
little children celebrating Shavuot in their kindergarten are taught not songs
and dances alone, but how to run for cover or lie flat on the ground protecting
their heads. And yet so often the world hears only one side of the story, while
the fear and disruption endured by Israeli families in the north barely merit a
mention. It leaves one longing not for anything grand or political, but simply
for the ordinary peace of those earlier days.
I know that we are living through an extraordinarily unpredictable
time, our lives seemingly balanced between the decisions of two powerful men
and an extremist theocracy openly committed to our destruction. One moment we
are wondering whether we will spend Shabbat sitting in the mamad listening for
sirens, and the next whether we might simply go for a peaceful walk in the
Jerusalem hills. That uncertainty is exhausting.
Perhaps that is why I felt such anger this week when an American
President casually remarked that Israel’s Prime Minister would “do as he is
told.” Seventy-eight years after Israel fought for and achieved independence,
those words jar painfully. Whatever one thinks of Netanyahu, and Israelis
certainly think many different things, this country is not a protectorate, nor
are Israelis a people who wait for others to determine our fate. We are proud,
stubborn, argumentative, independent, resilient people who built a nation
against impossible odds. And yes, there is confusion, frustration, and fear at
the moment, but beneath all of it remains something unshakable: this is our
home, our responsibility, and ultimately our future to decide.
On a much lighter note, we had rather mixed feelings watching this
year’s Eurovision, seeing the Israeli song “Michelle”, with its extraordinary
stage performance, come first with the viewers yet only second with the judges.
It somehow summed up the strange atmosphere surrounding Israel these days;
ordinary people responding with their hearts while official panels tie
themselves into knots trying to appear balanced and terribly sophisticated. In
truth, hosting next year’s Eurovision would probably have been rather
complicated for us at the moment, but it would still have been lovely to win. Through
it all, Noam Bettan conducted himself with warmth, dignity, and intelligence.
No anger, no theatrics, just quiet confidence and pride in representing Israel
at a time when doing so takes no small amount of courage. Sometimes simple
decency speaks far louder than politics. I love that he ended his performance,
as the cameras closed in for a close-up, he mouthed “Am Yisrael Chai”
Last Friday night we had an impromptu Shabbat Dinner here with our
cousins Rachel and Yossi Ribak and Zehava and Ami Sever. As you can imagine,
the conversation went from our current political, diplomatic situation and the emotional
see-saw of both our leadership and Iran. The interesting Israel question of “Who
will you vote for” was also clear in intent and uncertain in fact. It all
depends up whether or not our current opposition cares enough to get together
and form a majority to oust this Kakistocracy. I
pray that it will happen and happen soon. I pray that we will return to a
united, caring society without the splintering of the last nearly 20 years. I
pray that we will retain our rightful place among the democratic nations. I
pray that we will regain respect, both external and self respect. In other
words, I pray that we will be everything we prayed for before May 14th
1948.
So, the first song is an obvious choice.
Michelle, the incredible performance of Noam Bettan and the dancers at the 2026
Eurovision Song Contest. https://youtu.be/E2aL4xRzNXI?si=lVymECDvT8lJ4uU0
Naomi Shemer wrote many of the most beautiful Israeli
songs and this one doesn’t disappoint. SHIRAT HA´ASAVIM Sung by Shuli Rand it is a song to the plants and trees,
surely the epitome of Shevuot. https://youtu.be/GDw_2sHhxXQ?si=tzyrvKSLqThgc5Xd
Shevet Achim v’Achiot – a Tribe of Brothers
and Sisters. What we are and what we will be. It’s our dream, it’s our fact.
Here it’s home, Here it’s heart, Here our ancestors are the roots and we are
the flowers, it’s our Israel we will never leave. Israeli artistes sing our
greatest prayer. https://youtu.be/KLx6qOdA4OE?si=2FxwQl0F86HXMhIR
I wish you a peaceful celebration of both
Shevuot and Pentecost. I wish you a harvest of love and joy, of understanding
and acceptance of the other.
Shabbat Shalom to one and all and may God
bless you with the ability to find the best in every situation.
With love from our veranda which is filled
with the colour and scents from the blossoming trees and the newly emerged
flowers and, of course, the view from our veranda, over the Jerusalem Hills,
the view of Jerusalem, David’s city which is has no less than 70 names in the
Bible including Ir Shalem, Ariel, Yerushalyim, Shalm, Moriah, Zion, yes Zion
hence the word Zionist…..
Sheila