Monday, 6 October 2025

Remembering, Succot and hope for a new tomorrow

 

6th October 2025

One more day and it is 2 anguished years

 

I wish you a good Succot, or the feast of Tabernacles. What is a tabernacle? What is a Succah. Is it just another opportunity to hang decorations from the temporary roof, to shake a palm leaf and turn a citron? Perhaps, after the ghastly horror of the last two years and the recent jolt of the deadly attack on a Manchester synagogue it is a reminder of our frailty. Our impermanence, our tenuous existence, hasn't been as clear and disturbing for many generations. Perhaps another aspect of the building of a succah is to remember that we must appreciate permanence and not turn comfort into complacency.

 

If there is just one video that encapsulates the entire situation, in this case the UK, but one can basically replace Britain with virtually every and any other country, it is this report from Julia Hartley-Brewer which says it all. https://youtu.be/9CGaF0NzKm0?si=bwXuYQVBdhenp_oo

 

Her words echo throughout the world. I just want you to understand the numbers, cold, cruel numbers. Tomorrow is the anniversary of the 7th of October, the worst and cruellest attack on Jews for 80 years. Since then- 913 soldiers killed; 1,059 killed on October 7th; 37,500 missiles launched on Israel; 30,000  injuries; 300,000 miluimnikim (volunteer soldiers); 143,000 people evacuated from their homes; 10,000 people injured in terror attacks and of course 48 hostages still held under horrific conditions under Gaza.

 

As yet again our hopes are raised to bring the hostages home, both those that have hung on to life, again I use the word tenuous to describe their physical and psychological state, to describe Israelis of all creeds and our tsunami of emotions, to understand that it takes a strong, quixotic and dangerous man to bring about a change rather than a kindly and gentle man – gentle doesn’t work in war. Trump is probably not a particularly nice person, but that very fact might just change our entire region for the better.

 

I ask you all to pray that all of the below will come home. Say Tehilim (Psalms) or just do it in your own way, but please, if you have never prayed before, do it now. I am certain that Steve Witkof will be praying that his efforts, his heroic efforts, will pay off. Another worker for peace, although with little recognition

 

🎗️Alon Ohel

🎗️Ariel Cunio

🎗️Avinatan Or

🎗️Bar Kupershtein

🎗️Bipin Joshi

🎗️David Cunio

🎗️Eitan Horn

🎗️Eitan Mor

🎗️Elkana Bohbot

🎗️Evyatar David

🎗️Gali Berman

🎗️Guy Gilboa Dalal

🎗️Matan Angrest

🎗️Matan Zangauker

🎗️Maxim Herkin

🎗️Nimrod Cohen

🎗️Omer Neutra

🎗️Omri Miran

🎗️Rom Braslavski

🎗️Segev Kalfon

🎗️Tamir Nimrodi

🎗️Yosef Ohana

🎗️Ziv Berman

🎗️Amiram Cooper

🎗️Arye Zalmanovich

🎗️Asaf Hamami

🎗️Daniel Perez

🎗️Dror Or

🎗️Eitan Levy

🎗️Eliyahu Margalit

🎗️Guy Iluz

🎗️Inbar Hayman

🎗️Itay Chen

🎗️Joshua Mollel

🎗️Lior Rudaeff

🎗️Meni Godard

🎗️Mohammad El Atrash

🎗️Oakkharasr Sonthaya

🎗️Ran Gvili

🎗️Rinthalak Sudthisak

🎗️Ronen Angel

🎗️Sahar Baruch

🎗️Tal Haimi

🎗️Tamir Adar

🎗️Uriel Baruch

🎗️Yossi Sharabi

🎗️Hadar Goldin

 

I wish you a safe and happy Succot; A safe and happy Tabernacles Festival. Please don’t forget that just a short time ago it wasn’t a synagogue that was attacked, it was an LDS church.

 

A brighter future is within reach. Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, Egypt, Turkey, UAE, and so many countries in our region, even Syria, want to join the movement for peace. It may take time, it certainly needs re-education, but then you already know that Impact-se has that aspect in hand!

 

Israel will heal, slowly, gradually, when we see all of the above named home and we never, ever hear the dreaded words “hutar le persum” allowed for publication, again, when a soldier has died in battle. I hope, I have hope, it is not by accident that “The Hope” Hatikva is our national anthem.

 

I just found this song which fits Jew and Christian alike! It’s a happy Succah song!! https://youtu.be/nZECFcPZP4c?si=tgt0pUasCDDIw7Rg

 

Above all else we must stick together, we the rational majority mustn’t be silent. Stand by Me, by Ben E King. https://youtu.be/hwZNL7QVJjE?si=gWERc7WHLHAyPPvw

 

People from the Southern Border, most of whom had to leave their homes, those who still had homes; had to leave their families, those who still had families, and came together to sing. Koolulam, bringing people together in song and in hope for a better tomorrow. “Everything here will change from tomorrow” https://youtu.be/hptZdP_hulY?si=Vp8rEmII4a9JmSRO

 

Sending love to you all. Having come back from two days in Eilat I truly aapreciate Jerusalem weather as well as her spirituality and beauty.

Sheila

Wednesday, 1 October 2025

Hope and Forgiveness

 

1st of October 2025

 

“Veyhi Erev, vayehi boker” The eve is as the day or morning which means that every day in Judaism begins on the eve before. Tomorrow is the 10th day of the month of Tishrei, 5786, Yom Kippur,  and tonight we recite the prayer of Kol Nidre which opens our communal heart to the prayers of atonement.  Indeed a holy day, a day to understand that no matter what, we could have done better in life and could learn to do better in the future.

 

As I said last week, it isn’t about fasting, that’s part of it but it is about the prayers, the prayers for forgiveness for our collective sins, of which there are surely many.

 

I come from a small community, a truly magnificent one in Cardiff, South Wales and then on to Reading in Berkshire and if there was one infinitely important aspect to both, it is that all strangers were welcome not just the community. When I say welcome, we would immediately speak to, invite, make all strangers feel part of us. Too many synagogues (by any other name be it shule, temple or whatever) have a hierarchy that bears no resemblance to the purpose of a synagogue, which does not belong to the President, nor the Chairman of the Board, not even to the Rabbi or the Cantor, it belongs to us. A synagogue is, above all, a place for all of us, without exception, to commune with God.

 

Last night Zvi and I went to the Jerusalem Theatre to hear a wonderful concert with the Jerusalem Symphony Orchestra. It was not classical music, in fact it wasn’t even close to classical music it was however a new twist on Jewish Liturgical music sung, played and presented by Yehala Lachmish and Eyal Haviv. Familiar words sung but the rendition in the form of the Jews of the Eastern and Western Diaspora. The clear message of the lyrics (Biblical passages) was inevitably of peace and our desire for peace. Just maybe, possibly, hopefully, this week brought us just a tiny step toward that prayer.

 

Today is not a day for long and political missives, it is a day to remember our fallen, to pray for those still in captivity and for our amazing soldiers, to remember and to bring them home. It is the one thing that can serve as glue to our fractured society. To bring the hostages home is a prayer on the lips of everyone, irrespective of politics. Hope has no colour, no creed, no hate it is pure. That is why it is our anthem, an anthem of peace and hope, Hatikva.

 

I wish you a year of peace, of kindness, of hope and of love. The expression of “G’mar Hatima Tova” is simple, not as many think, to be written in the Book of Life, but rather to be written in the book of living honestly and kindly.

 

Azi Schwartz writes. On my recent trip to Tel Aviv I met with survivors of the Nova music festival massacre. We spent some time speaking about the trauma they experienced, we played ball on the beach, and we sang this song, a prayer for protection and the happiness of youth, made famous by Ofra Haza. May we all have hope for renewal, healing and resilience. Simply called Tefila - Prayer

https://youtu.be/2hZUAorvE18?si=mwqqd1AjEUzAr26C  

 

Selichot or to ask for forgiveness. If you are an Eastern Jew it is a matter of one month whereas Ashkenazi Jews say this prayer for just one week. Last night was the last time before Yom haKippurim. Although one can say it anywhere the most emotive rendition is here at the Western Wall, the Kotel. https://youtu.be/n2oTszbwwiU?si=-HUyLcVr1WGeZJMU

 

If there is one prayer on all our lips, a prayer that comes from within, not from a book, each and every one of us, it is that our loved ones, our hostages come home to the love of all sane human beings. Koolulam and words that express our prayer to BRING THEM HOME/ https://youtu.be/6y2laYXcBdU?si=N0Y1uTe1cc9dhdCy

 

If I have in any way shape or form offended you or hurt you, I not only regret, beg for your forgiveness, but I will strive to do better. I pray that the glimmer of light that began in Washington this week, will grow into a sun so bright that our dreams of a world free of hatred can come true. One must dream, one must hope.

 

Shana Tova. May your year be kind.

Sheila

 

Friday, 26 September 2025

Atonement and Hope

 

 

26th of September 2025

4th of the Hebrew month of Tishrei 5786

720 days of the October 7th War

 

Shabbat Shalom, Hatima Tova.

 

I was thinking how many different greetings, blessings we have in Judaism. Shabbat Shalom  (I wish you a peaceful Sabbath), Chag Sameach (I wish you a happy or pleasant festival), Hatima Tova (May you be inscribed in the Book of Life) Gmar Hatima Tova (on the days over Yom Kippur and just after to wish that the inscribing in the Book of Life be sealed) and of course Moadim le Simcha (wishing you happy times) which we say in the intervening days of a festival which has beginnings and end like Passover, Succot etc. All different but all so much more meaningful than a simple “Good Yom Tov” which just means, have a good day!  As I said I really thought about all the different blessings and realised that that is exactly what they are, blessings; blessings for both the giver and the recipient. Fascinating

 

Rachel Goldberg-Polin, in a message to all those supposedly holy men in the coalition and their supporters: “You can fast for two years, pray continuously for five years, blow the shofar, and wave chickens for atonement. If you do not return the hostages (those who are still alive), you will never be forgiven—neither in this world nor in the next.” Strong words from a strong woman whose son was not saved.

 

Major Richard Kemp wrote: “The mighty Spanish navy has sent a warship to “protect” the Selfie Flotilla supposedly heading for Gaza. That same Navy declined to join the 14 others that deployed assets to protect international shipping from Houthi attack. And in fact, the Houthi terrorists praised Spain for it” Incredible.

 

Countries are rushing to “recognise” a Palestinian state. But statehood isn’t a hashtag — it’s supposed to be earned. Right now, there is no functioning government, no real bureaucracy, no financial plan. Before the world even whispers about statehood there must be iron-clad steps. Every single hostage must come home; Hamas must be disarmed and dismantled; The “pay-for-slay” stipends must end; UNRWA’s anti-Jewish curriculum has to be ripped out by the roots.

Without these, recognition isn’t peace, it’s a reward for terror. It keeps both Israelis and Palestinians locked in the same nightmare instead of opening a door to a future built on responsibility, not on blood and broken promises. Real peace and real statehood are possible, but only when they’re built on accountability, disarmament and the dignity of every life. That’s the day we should all be working for.

 

Say what you will about President Trump, his support of Israel is unquestionable. The United Nations in its lack of wisdom, found a way around the refusal to give an entry visa to Mahmoud Abbas, they simply let him speak over a video link! He spoke at prime time to a full hall, whereas Prime Minister Netanyahu has been given an eight in the morning slot and a threatened walk-out. Something stinks not only in Denmark and we all know the story of Hamlet. In that play everyone loses and actors will not call it by name for fear of cursing the play. I feel that we are bystanders in the play while the world encourages the death of Hamlet.

 

My dismay at the actions of this government is no secret but there seems to be light at the end of a very long tunnel. After 1,000 days of a fractured, counterproductive opposition, there is talk of merging into one platform. Gadi Eizenkot, Yair Lapid, Benny Gantz, Naftali Bennet and possibly Avigdor Liberman and Yair Golan. Non-partisan, neither extreme left nor extreme right, clearly pragmatic, just what we need. If it happens then they will have a majority in the Knesset.

 

Debra Messing, Mayan Bialik and Lev Schreiber are at the forefront of a petition signed by more than 1,200 Hollywood figures, against the boycott of Israeli films in Hollywood. Among our signees, stars and industry professionals Gene Simmons, Sharon Osbourne, Greg Berlanti, Jerry O’Connell, Howie Mandel, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Lisa Edelstein, Erin Foster, Anthony Edwards, Rebecca De Mornay, Sherry Lansing and Haim Saban. Unbelievable, incredible, Hollywood that was founded by Jews, that is still reliant on their Jewish film-makers and the inane, mindless actors like Susan Sarandon and Mark Ruffalo campaign against Israel.

 

Without Iron Dome the last months, years, would have brought tragedy and destruction, but it is horrendously expensive. Now Israel has a new defence system against missiles, rockets and drones. The Israeli laser defense system "Or Eitan" was named in memory of Captain Eitan Oster, an officer in the Egoz unit who was killed in Lebanon. His father, who was a key developer of the system, was deeply involved in the project. "Or Eitan" means "Eitan's Light" or determined light in Hebrew. Innovative, inexpensive and accurate, a true tribute to a brave soldier and his father.

 

Since October last year about 22,000 new immigrants arrived in Israel from 98 countries.

About 9,500 from Russia, 3,100 from the United States, 2,800 from France, 800 from Ukraine and 750 from the United Kingdom. It is becoming very clear that despite Iran, many are realising that it is safer here in Israel than in many countries where anti-Semitism is rife.

 

On a more humorous note, this brilliant article, written by James Macpherson, appeared in Australia. Israel Recognises Australia as a Palestinian State. Melbourne will be renamed West Ramallah, only with better coffee and more crime! Israel has stunned the international community by formally recognising Australia as a Palestinian state. Australia itself will now be listed on official maps as “Occupied Aboriginal Territory (Palestinian Protectorate, Southern Division).” https://jamesmacpherson.substack.com/p/israel-recognises-australia-as-a

 

An unexpected friend. Addressing the UN General Assembly, Indonesia’s President Prabowo Subianto says the world must respect Israel’s right to live in security, and ends his speech saying, “Shalom.” Indonesia is the most populous Muslim country in the world, and does not have official relations with Israel. “We must also recognize, we must also respect, and we must also guarantee the safety and security of Israel. Only then we can have real peace,” When Impact-se did the research on Indonesian school books we found them relatively free of hate education.

 

The White House is backing a plan that would see Tony Blair head a temporary administration of the Gaza Strip – initially without the direct involvement of the Palestinian Authority (PA), according to media reports. Under the proposal, Blair would lead a body called the Gaza International Transitional Authority (Gita) that would have a mandate to be Gaza’s “supreme political and legal authority” for as long as five years. Just as the British mandate built the Israeli Police force, Legal system, administration and medical services so a new International mandate, ironically led by a former British Prime Minister, hopes to do the same in Gaza. Finally, and at last, a “day after” plan

 

And so to the High holidays! Basically, I was unwell most of the time, ghastly cough like 50% of the world’s population!! However, we managed to have first night Rosh Hashanah with our family in Nes Ziona and for the first day, we were thrilled to have Ira, Tomer and Sheli together with Earl and Kathleen Cox. I admit that although my chicken soup was very tasty my baking was not the best but luckily Sheli baked a wonderful challah to save the day. The conversation was fascinating and flowed from Russia to Gaza, from Christian and Jewish aspects to simple politics; what I loved is that it was all polite, respectful and at times amusing, the way that it should be at a Rosh Hashana table.

 

This week’s parasha (Torah reading) gathers everyone, leaders, elders, children, even strangers  and says the covenant is not just for them but also “for those who are not here.” It’s a reminder that every generation stands again at Sinai and chooses who we want to be. In a time when our people feel threatened and divided, these verses whisper hope: even after loss we can return, even in exile we are not forgotten. Our choices, big and small, still shape the whole.

 

Almost Yom Kippur. Of course, it is a Fast Day but in fact it has nothing to do with fasting! We are supposed to be so deeply in prayer that we do not think of food. The prayers, the readings, the congregation are the essence of the day. Yet again we will add a prayer for the return of our hostages, those who are still alive and those who were slaughtered by Hamas. As a people we cannot lose this fight, far greater than any war, any desire to wipe out a vile and cruel regime. Please God, BRING THEM HOME, Their families live in a state of terror every day, their anguish increased as they see videos of their loved ones, or the shadows of what they once were, made by Hamas.

 

We read the story of Jonah on Yom Kippur. It not only bears witness of Jonah’s original fears of facing the cruel people of Nineveh (modern day Mosul) but also about God’s forgiveness of the people of Nineveh in His decision not to destroy them. So much to learn if we open our eyes.

 

As in life, remember that the moment the Day of Atonement ends, the first nails of the Succah (tabernacle or booth) hold the flimsy walls of the succah ready to celebrate the happy harvest festival. Always hope, always something to represent a better future

 

I wish you all of the blessings that I mentioned at the beginning of this missive and leave you with some music that expresses everything at this time of year.

 

On Kol Nidre, the eve of Yom Kippur, we begin the prayers with this plea, Avinu Malkenu. Shulem Lemmer https://youtu.be/27HaHpaFEC8?si=AZaSwF1Na9_dXxGu

 

Another beautiful prayer for Yom Kippur is Utanei Tokef, considered a prayer for soldiers on this day. https://youtu.be/cArGmG3BLcI?si=gqYr2UcSdtEcXWrb

 

We talk about the hostages but our soldiers, our children and grandchildren are the first and  last defence against a cruel enemy. May they all come home safely and those thousands who were injured heal and release their nightmares. The prayer for the IDF. https://youtu.be/yze5holvKgU?si=RvK9htiZ1hP2r3jX

 

Together, just as the diverse political stance of those who intend joining to change our democratic government so we, the different faiths of this world, irrelevant which way we pray or in what language, all faiths need to come together to bring change. Instead of hatred lets get out there and spread hope and love.

 

With love and hope, all the way from Jerusalem

Sheila